Need to make
impact: prob: not everyone wants to be helped. Also, when all our
SE is based on it, we b/c frustrated
Need to return
favor: i.e. if ind. had a good helping figure in past
Need to care
for others: i.e. if that was your role in the family from young
age. Problem: if you don’t have or can’t accept that you also need
others to listen to you, you will b/c burnt out.
àmany
professional helpers come from prob. families
Need for self-help:
if you’re in the field to fix something about yourself. You can be
especially empathic in such situations. Prob: might get over-involved
(i.e. previously abused [now]therapist might be hostile to abusive husband
The need to be
needed: most therapists feel this.
àprob:
could overshadow
the need of client (i.e. discouraging independence)
if you depend of
your clients for positive feedback, your SE is shaky
problem if you don’t
get positive feedback from employer
If all their live
revolve around this, what will they do when they retire?
Need for money:
SW is not known to make a lot of $. Making $ is imp! If not, you’d
feel stressed out if you’re underpaid. On the other hand, if it is
your primary concern, it will interfere w/ therapy of your clients
Need for prestige
and status: often you don’t get it. if you do get it, you may
seem unapproachable or over-idealized (from there you can only go downhill)
Need to provide
answers: people think that they are less valued if they don’t
have all the answers yet the clients often care more about being listened
to rather than told what to do.
àif
you really want to help others, teach them how to provide for their
own answers
the need for
Control: sometimes we wanna control others
àproblem:
meets resistance and not change in the other
how your needs/motives
operate
-the needs listed above are
ok – you just have to be aware of them – if not, then they affect
your interventions more
-many helpers have self-doubts
in beginning
portrait of an effective
helper
assessment of
self as a person: strengths as well as weaknesses
can’t help others
with what you can’t help yourself with
be open for change
and learning
good interpersonal
skills
caring about clients
knowing that helping
is a long process and am able to stick around for it
know that clients
are restricting themselves and part of your job is to broaden their
sight
be eclectic
respect other ethnicities
and cultural backgrounds
don’t let your
problems intrude into therapy
take care of your
personal life à
do yourself what you ask of your patients
always examine
your motives and beliefs àmake sure that they’re not imposed
you’re capable
of relations w/ at least few significant people
diff b/w self-love/pride
and arrogance
interpersonal skills needed
to be a good therapist:
Sensitivity:
are you interested in welfare of others?
Personal presence:
how respectful/genuine are you in the i.p. relationships?
Compassion and
empathy: are you able to respond w/ concern and understanding?
Flexibility/willingness
to receive feedback: can you get feedback and change your b/h
integrity:
can you show self respect as well as for others
modeling:
can you demonstrate functional human b/h and coping processes
Insight:
can you perceive/understand/abstract/generalize from professional and
personal experiences?
4 types of masters:
counseling
rehabilitation
marital and family
clinical SW
Marital/family counseling
-deals w/ family system
àWhat kind of license is less imp. than
experience
àstill a new field/still now national-wide
separate licensing
social worker
-a lot of job flexibility
àthey learn how to give both direct
and indirect social services
choosing profession: reflects
who we are, (and therefore how others treat us)
motivation/achievement
(what we wanna do and if we have the persistence to follow through)
interests
abilities:
in action (+. aptitude in school)àwhat you are good at doing
àwork
values: what you wanna accomplish in your work (i.e. wanting
to help others)
1/11/06
-everyone has anxieties/issues,
who deal w/ the with defense mechanisms
-the people who’s defense
mechanisms don’t work feel that they are at the verge of falling apart
and go get help
àSome even ask for medication to relieve
issues!
sometimes when
people come for felt, we as therapists feel omnipotent – that we know
everything and have a magic, instant solution
Other times, person
comes for several sessions and when they feel better, symptomatically,
they disappear.
others leave b/c
they don’t wanna change
In beginning, relation
might be strainful
-some things, therapists cannot
do: can’t undo loss of dad but you can help relieve some of
the pain.
-sometimes, “being” and
giving warm relation goes a long way
-so often people go for treatment
want to deal w/ personal story
-the
fact that we hear ourselves speak about out problems helps him
-people are ambivalent about
the beginning: they want to change yet do not wanna change
-others go to treatment for
satisfaction: want answers, advice/write our BTL instead of them
Gotta ask the question:
what does he want
what does he really
need
-kid wants toy to the point
he is making tantrums in middle of mall,
-he really needs boundaries
-also gotta have basic trust
at first
-we gotta have boundaries as
well empathy
-empathy: taking
part in someone else’s world w/o losing our identity
-We try to see clients’
world as if it was ours – it’s not really ours but se want
to see his world (yet we know were we are) – we are willing to give
up our life-space in order to see his life-space
àOnly when we “leave” back for our
world, we can help
-empathy is not joining in
feeling/attitudes/Rahamim/”this also happened to me”/can’t always
help
-empathy is not identification!
-in empathy, there needs to
be a diff. b/w therapist and patient
“for
the benefit of the child” - value choices and the professional’s
job – Mili Massas
This article
deals with the interplay b/w the principle of “the benefit of the
child” and 3 factors important to child’s autonomy:
political and social
norms that dictate what is a decent life
social norms which
dictate what a family is
self evaluation
of the child vs. society’s evaluations of the parents
-the benefit of the child principle
allows SW to disregard other imp. principle (i.e. keeping family intact)
-in cases like this, there
is no empirical evidence, but rather a value choice
àthis
article will exactly discuss this
Shifman: 2 assumptions are
at base of the “benefit of the child” principle
this is a reaction
to past where people thought that kids were property of parents
àgives
child rights/autonomy
content of this
wide-range principle is differentially applied according to the situation
note- the s no absolute, universal
definition of “child’s interest”
best: based on social
definitions
Kessen: the word child
is not a physical thing only but also a socially defined term
-we have to be aware of the
concept so that social norms who try to help the kid won’t accidentally
disregard his independence/growth
factors in seeing the children
within social context:
seeing kids’
best w/I what society sees as worthy lives
seeing kid’s w/I
socially defined family life
child’s perception
of being worthy vs. society seeing the parents as such
Politics of
“worthy life”
Ideal definition: seeing
child as independent person
Problem: he can’t
always be independent, as a kid! But it still means he has rights
Worthy life
is firstly politically defined – how society defines a worthy life
-i.e. worthy life – best
for the country
-in
Communist countries, not going to work – bad for country = bad for
your kids
-in
democratic countries = focus more on freedom of choice. = never take
kids out b/c of mom not working!
-in short, countries used the best-for-the-kid
excuse to punish those who oppose the system
example: when kids abused
in jails after 1st intifada, Israeli society didn’t
defend them, yet when the kids lived in hard situations when the people
fist came to settle Israel, there was a protection of the kids- b/cone
of then is not for the benefit if society and the other is!
Worthy family life
The technical definition is
living under same roof
-in
practice, no looking at the psychological parenting!
-i.e. if there is a psychological
bond b/w kid and parent, court won’t consider it. I.e. in open-adoptions
-so what happens is that often,
parent is punished for something, and the court disregards the kid’s
needs.
-i.e. if abusive mom yet dad
doesn’t want to give a divorce, then court will say that the kids
can’t live under same roof, and will take kid out as a punishment
for abusive mom, yet disregards kid’s good relation w/ dad!
Child’s perception
of being worthy vs. society seeing the parents as such
-i.e. court claims to deal
with relative parent’s relative ability, yet it practice speaks in
absolute terms
Example: kid whose parents
were killed for political reasons was adopted by the army guy who killed
her parents (who were against current gov’t in Argentina. Later in
life, the judge wanted to take her out of their hands b/c the army guy
now b/c against the new gov’t. Judge didn’t want to leave the girl
at the “adoptive” parents b/c they aren’t worth it, yet
she’ll run away from the biological grandparents. So judge put her
up for adoption.
Problem:
no differentiation b/w claiming that parents are bad as parents vs.
bad for other reasons! No question of what girl wants or what is good
for her!
-also in Israel, the courts
assume malice from parents and do not relate to kid’s relationship
to parent
-obviously, not every case
of absolute parenting does question of negating of parents come
up – only in cases of relative parenting.
Example: mom is depressive.
Doesn’t take kid to kindergarten, only to after-school program. There,
they get sent back home saying that you can only be there if kid went
to kindergarten in morning, and that this is no replacement for babysitter.
-mom
gets punished but the program forgot the interest of the child!
Note: the principle
of for the interest of the child does not only include to protect from
parents, but to maintain his right to them
Respecting parents as
an expression of protecting the kid’s interest
i.e. Arabs: are living
in poor conditionsàcan’t claim that their standard of
living is against the rights of their children è must also consider their socioeconomic
status
-can’t
help the kids w/o helping the parents!
Professional’s task
-in courts, there is a value-filled
question:
keeping the families
complete
-vs.-
protecting the child
from it
-in court, the protection of
the child has 2 elements:
when are the facts
that brought the case to court
what is the future
of the kid and the family
-judge Barak: “just
b/c the kid is adoptable and it’s for the best, doesn’t mean that
the law will stop there! Also depends of parents’ ability to hurt
the child”
2 stages of adoption:
8 criteria in clause
13 of adoption law àdoesn’t specifically say “for the
benefit of the child” but it is the theme of it
after #1 is established,
there should be a legal decision about whether adoption is legally possible
àtry
to solve the uncertainty of the current situation vs. future of family
best interest of
kid – a value decision
parental ability
– factual/legal decision (not fully in lens of the benefit of child,
as hinted by Barak)
-need a professional opinion
in order to know parent’s ability for future change
Problem: therapeutic
approaches disagree! Mahler: gotta separate from parents. Bowlby:
attachment! àShould
be take kid or not?
-another problem: the psych.
theories don’t relate to family/social/cultural/political situations
– thus you must have more input than the mental-health professional
-the mental health professional
can held w/ his skill at understanding the kid and his worldàthis
is the key to understanding of the connection b/w parent’s skills
and future of family
àprofessional’s
view is not detached from court’s view – that you can’t easily
detach kid from parents
Problem: sometimes,
professionals use their image to advance their own personal opinions.
People/parents feel this and start publicly criticizing this!
Note: benefit of the
child is not absolute! When parents fail to negotiate w/ society what
is acceptable, that is when they come to court. Thus calling professional
to give opinion is an attempt to see their side as well! Professional’s
opinion should reflect a compromise b/w kids’ side and parents’
side
Benefit of child is a social
thing! we are angry when kids get taken to protests but not taken
to live in middle of Israeli-Palestinian fight
Thus: we can’t make
up our own rules! We have to negotiate too, b/w our views of benefit
of child/society/parents/court’s views
-really the SW is not there
to judge but to negotiate and compromise (not borer but
rather mefasher)
-the SW doesn’t decide what’s
best for child but rather the court, based on social norms
àSW’s
job is just to make sure that also kid and also parent’s sides were
heard
summery
Main idea of the article:
the benefit of the child should be seen through the lends of society.
That is why the court eventually decides what is for his benefit
-those in social sciences who
claim that if we look at things subjectively, you can’t see the phenomenon
systematically
-article
thinks that despite subjectivity, you can see things systematically
àwe
can only see child’s best interest w/I context of time and place
today: everyone agrees
on what is not in child’s interest, yet the focus is on punishment
vs. protection of child
thus, every time, we
must redefine the benefit of the child, and is not a natural/objective/universal
one
àDiscarding
the universality and objectivity of benefit of child does not reduce
its strength! If we do make it universal, then the concept will be worn
out!
8/11/2006
-read the empathy articles
-First semester test, second
semester a work that is to be handed in at the last class
-today’s class was a discussion
of each student’s feeling of his work practicum
The
empathic story – Dr. Chaim Omar
Often, the
client rejects the therapist’s explanation. It used to be called resistance.
Lately, behavioral-cognitive, organizational and now also clinical therapists
reject this
Reasons for rejection of
therapist’s view
viewed as degrading
explanations
values reflected
are not those of client
seem foreign or
too abstract
go against other
explanations of clients
tone and phrasing
might not be right
therapist reactions:
tend to ask only
questions
let the client
exclusively decide for himself whether explanation is right
-the point is that patient
needs to say “this is me!”
àthus
the term “empathy” is shifting from an absolute to relative (to
each client)
-thus, sheifer defined
empathy in therapeutic setting: not just accepting the person, but also
the internal logic of the problematic b/h
àWe have to realize that he is acting
to the best of his ability (even though his b/h sucks!
ànot
only a victim of bad conditions, but a survivor of those
conditions
-you can use professional terms
to communicate b/w professionals but if client seems at foreign then
don’t use that terminology
note:
-the empathic story tries to
understand the internal emotional logic
logic: must
realize that there is an thought b/h the b/h
emotional -
though here which is not working on the cost-vs- benefit level
internal:
gotta be from the world of the client and not from staff’s world
– i.e. when the client doesn’t think in functional ways
-so when client first comes,
the therapist draws a tentative structure of person, which is open for
negotiation until with time therapist knows client better
àso
empathy comes through the getting to know of the person and his
story
-first the therapist tries
to use scheme that he knows, but his just is to build from scratch a
more accurate story that transcends the known schemes àthat is empathy
-sometimes clients heard so
much that “foreign” stories that they are not in-tune enough to
themselves and now the first thing that they have to do in therapy is
to get that sense. (so that you can deal with the real stuff)
-“ugly therapy”
therapist changes and admits mistakes in his previous understanding
assumptions of this kind
of empathy
it is narrative
bound
ever-changing,
according to situation
client-centered
therapist passive
(listening more) than putting into a set scheme
when therapy is
stuck, change narrative
àall
of this will help us me more empathic and less intrusive
àhelps
the therapeutic alliance
Client’s
expectations- from: man meets himself
Expressing
the issue
-people come to treatment w/
many types of issues
emotional
thought
behavioral
àcommonly
called metzuka – distress
-pain in itself is not enough
to bring to therapy àonly when he can’t deal w/ it himself
àoften,
after person feels that he can’t deal w/ issue himself (often, after
many unsuccessful attempts to deal w/ it
-but, w/o pain, person won’t
stick around for the long haul
àbecause
subjectively, there is no need for change
àoutside pressure to seek help w/ objective
problems is not enough to get person to seek therapy
-introspection curiosity alone
also won’t bring to therapy – distress is also a factor
-problem of distress w/ no
solution that person can come up with àleads to therapy
àhope that therapist will solve the
problem
-even w/ intellectual insight
t/w the opposite, – there is an emotional though-process of
magic/omnipotence t/w the therapist
people get disappointed
B/c:
Introspective process
in therapy –could hurt!
High cost of change
àgive
up a known type of reaction – the known is comfort
àfinding
alternative reactions: requires adaptation period
i.e.
my change won’t change my surrounding or might even increase tension
w/ surrounding
àhas
to give up secondary gains i.e. special attention b/c problem
-that’s why often leave therapy
after initial pain is over (w/o dealing with underlying issue!)
psychoanalytic phenomenon:
- escape to health
-give up symptoms so he won’t
have to deal with pain of introspection
-others will decide to stay
b/c if they’ll actually try harder, it will feel even better
other times people come
to deal w/ unsolvable problems (i.e. death of a loved one)
àcome to get help the wound heal –live
w/ the pain
expectation t/w therapist
-help deal w/ sense of loss
of control in life
-helplessness t/w internal
or external hardships àhas to be overwhelming for the person
to come to therapy àthe client feels stuck – degraded,
helpless to continue as he had until now
-therapy is meant to see
what happened
why it happened
how to deal with
it (options that he did not see in the past)
yearning for echo
-people tend to be known and
acquainted by others, to be heard and felt by others
àtouch
and be touched
àthis is a human need regardless of
getting secondary benefit
-intimacy is a basic human
need
àbeing ignored by others is a human
fear
àNeed
to have someone to listen/understand.
-some people after a bitter
run of experiences, give up the need to have human interactions/listening
ear
àthe need is still there but denies
it to himself to avoid the pain of rejection
-the need to be listened to
is not only to hear but also listen to the content, even if the content
is not acceptable to listener
-thus the client expects of
the therapist to accept him in all “climates” of mood –
even in storms
àand
also in silence (when words can’t describe the toughness of situation,
some people are silent
-person wants a echo from the
inside as well àto feel himself and where he’s going
àfind
meaning in his existence
à:find internal legitimization for what
he feels
-external echo is usually a
prerequisite for us acquiring our internal voice
-internal
voices that do not get echoed outside usually get weaker à“they
are not worth recognition”
-it b/c kind of a circular
feeder – the inside feed the outside echoes and thus it feeds back
the inside voice, and inside echo that doesn’t get outside feedback
gets weaker inside
àif
one of them is negative then it reflects on the reciprocal echo
the will to freedom and
the escape from it
-often, in therapy, the question
of freedom to choose comes up: to be autonomous vs. dependent
-dependency:
don’t know what they want anymore/give up an area of their lives
(Earning/raising
kids/etc..) àb/c
of things like perfectionism/fear of failure/lack of knowledge/criticism
-thus the person is in a critical
moment in his life and wants to move on yet isn’t able
àFallacy:
hard=impossible.
àbehind this fallacy stands the lack
of willingness to pay the price for the freedom of choice
3 costs of freedom of choice:
negating easier
alternatives
freedom of choice
might disappoint us in the end
if we fail, we can
only blame us
-thus, freedom could bring
with it anxiety
-so there is a choice of to
the security of an external system or deal with the anxiety that comes
with freedom (that would allow us to do things that might fit our internal
lives better
-the difficulty in deciding
might come up in therapy in pone of 2 ways:
trying to give responsibility
to the therapist
legitimizing keeping
on being dependant
satisfyings
primary narcissism:
-the baby who tries to satisfy
his needs from moment to moment
-for baby to be socialized
to tolerate frustration, and to see more sides than his own, he needs
to be socialized!
2 conditions:
basic trust
in surroundings to give him basic needs
learn to negotiate/compromise-
the idea being that the more he gives the more he gets
-socialization does not necessarily
infl. deeper levels of person – he’ll still have aggressive/irrational
motives/low tolerance thinking
àFreud’s
innovation was not in that they exist, but that they exist in the unconscious
of the adult and influence b/h
-thus, person whose low frustration
is ego-syntonic will not to treatment (i.e. antisocial) àjust
those people whose internal wishes are ego-dystonic (neurotic). When
the person is overwhelmed with the thought that thoughts might lead
to actions, he’d go to therapy
Anti-social –feels no
guilt for what he did
Neurotic – feels guilty for
what he only thought
-there is no correlation b/w
subjective fear of losing control to impulses and really losing
control
therapist can help in 2
ways:
showing the person
that everyone has those impulses which society limits
showing the person
that he can use those impulses in a socially acceptable way
therapy idea:
-person can be fully aware
of those impulses and partially fulfilling of them
therapy can bring up:
-1) impulses that society regulates
as well as 2) things that society accepts (i.e. everyone should be accepted/loved
– yet patient doesn’t feel he is accepted)
-therapy is not meant to fulfill
needs (i.e. the transference needs/etc…)
àTherapy is not a substitute for real
life!
-satisfying of basic impulses
and needs gotta come from real life and not from the therapist
àtherapy is only supposed to help you
get to satisfy your needs in a better way
àthat’s
why therapy is enjoyable
therapist as parental role:
-therapist fulfills function
that parents were supposed to do:
-constant figure based on real
human interaction (i.e. seeing what he person’s real needs are) àanalogous
to family
-but then again, therapy is
just a temporary way-station back into real life – just like a family
is a temporary way-station into real life
Empathy
and communication in cross cultural meetings – shneller
-this article
focuses not on the therapeutic value of empathy, but rather on cross-cultural
aspects of communication of empathy.
àcross-cultural as well and individual
diff. cause there to be an error in understanding (vs. no understanding
at all) of non-verbal communication which hinder positive use of empathyàgotta
learn the other’s culture to understand him and thus increase positive
(true) empathy and thus help his treatment
empathy: based
on proper communication (verbal/non-verbal)
-non-verbal
communication is largely culture-based
àsince Israel is multicultural – there
might be an error of non-verbal communication and thus a error in empathy
-risk could be reduced by learning
the client’s culture
empathy and communication
–definitions
extreme definition-
communication is a definitive element of empathy
another definition
– communication is necessary but not sufficient for empathy
at first, empathy
was seen as the ability to feel the other einfühlung
entering someone
else’s experiences momentarily
Katz: 2 stages:
1) identifying w/ the other 2) incorporation – internalizing
other’s experience
Suspending intellectual
criticism
Cognitive approaches:
Clark: using the frontal lobe: the union of intellect w/ emotional
component: abstractly deal and sense the other’s need’s/wants/frustrations/worries/fears/happiness/etc.
-to do empathy, we need to
know the person to all his depths àread correctly his emotions/b/h/body
language/etc… [based on correct non-verbal communication]
-thus, to understand communication
in the narrow sense, we look at the root-word common àneed a sense of partnership in meanings.
Factors of communication:
certain message
has to be there
code- language
- the hearer has to decode the message
àgotta
know how to organize them and the rules for code usage
the listener must
want to understand the message
-early model- communication
is a one-way, linear thing
àWeiner:
spoke about kiberentics: there is a feedback mechanism: a conversation
is full with feedback-mechanisms from its start to the end of the conversations
De-Flor/Larson
– feedback model of communication
-communication to receiver
gets receiver to send some sort of signal returning it to the sending
party
-we’ll only discuss the fullest
definition of communication: 2-way, face-to-face, multi-staged
non-verbal communication
and empathy
-understanding the non-verbal
communication is essential to therapy, and to understanding its processes
non-verbal communication:
-is categorized by its function:
repetition/completion/replaces/emphasis/regulator/even opposing to the
spoken word
-other definitions:
non-verbal vocal
(a.k.a. paralanguage) – is mostly quality of voice, (or prosodic)
and vocal characteristics (clear expressive meaning)
main point: there are
non-verbal ways to communicate
body
Proxemics:
using all body (in relation to space) for body communication (i.e. distance
b/w the talking parties/h. person stands/etc…)
kinesis:
moving whole body/body-parts regardless of the space (i.e. facial expressions/mimics
–btw, most of this communication is eyes/eye-brows/mouth
argyle: non-verbal communication
is received stronger than verbal
-body movements are easy to
monitor, but much less so the face communication, and thus the message
comes through despite self-monitoring
-thus people communicate on
multi-levels
-studies show that huge majority
of communication takes place non-verbally
verbal: intellectual/creative
sides of us
non-verbal: social/cultural
sides of us
emblems: movements
that replace phrases
posture: shows
level of acceptance/rejection of person, as well as personal security
level
-face – main communicator
of emotions
àthus
face-to-face meetings is best way of empathy
-the expressions could appease
the listener or make him more anxious
Inconsistent communication:
saying one thing and expressing non-verbally another thing
Study: not one but all
non-verbals together give a strong message (more than words!)
-the discussion of non-verbal
communication gets complicated when discussing the multi-cultured Israel
communication and culture
some non-verbals
are universal (i.e. basic emotions)
others are culture-specific
– more connected to local issues
-we learn the non-verbal language
from when we’re born
-there is also variance b/w
sub-cultures!
Mis-communication:
the wrong reading of non-verbal language (usually culture-bound communication
styles)
Dis-communication:
when listener doesn’t know the given body-language (less of a problem
than miscommunication, as we’ll see)
3 phenomenon which might
interact w/ cross-cultural therapy
a lot of mis-communication
within a subculture
greater difficulty
w/ cross-cultural communication
correct communication
is essential in understanding
if therapist focuses on
verbal communication in the beginning:
client might not
have good verbal skills for therapeutic context
poor Hebrew of immigrants
the 2 first reasons
are increased by stress of therapy
gotta remember that
client uses terms that therapist wants to hear
àthus
there is an increased need for non-verbal communication
level of closeness &the
security of deciphering non-verbal communication
-need to be aware of miscommunication
in order to fix it
-mere miscommunication doesn’t
just become fixed
-if you are certain of message
(and you’re correct = good)
-closer to understanding, usually
goes with being more secure about the message being non-verbally conveyed
-closer to true understanding
= better communication
conclusion
-cross-cultural miscommunication
is usually high
-main thing in not to understand
but to see how much you understand
understanding cultures/their
communication style for the increase of empathy
-one claim that some cultures
don’t care about empathy
-nonetheless, you’ve gotta
learn their verbal/non-verbal language and use it in order to show empathy
to a person from that culture
Class 15/11/2006
-today, we’re going to speak
about the first meeting
-the therapy contract is what
happens the first meeting. It will shape the rest of the therapy process
with that person.
-There is a balance b/w you,
client, context, etc…
Here’s some stuff we need
for the therapy contract
-We have to remember that we’re
dealing w/ people
-the contract really starts
in the first phone call
I.e. cancel 24 b/f if
you have to cancel, etc… àrules are set into a “contract”
-say what we expect to do there
as therapists
4 factors in the therapy
system:
Physical
conditions – what we put in the room (i.e. if we put family pictures/files
of others in the room àhow the room is, that will infl. the
non-verbal that person will receive. You can also state the fact that
you don’t have a room, so our temporary place is X gotta remember
that when we’re part of an organization, we’re bound by they resources,
so we have to stress that as part of the organizational rules
Contractual factors:
privacy/length of meeting, etc…
Therapeutic relationship:
1) anonymous, 2)neutrality, 3)non-judgmental 4) this is non-equal since
I won’t say my opinion. Those things might not be said explicitly.
This is not a social meeting. We might explain that therapy is about
thinking about things that come up and thinking about how it influences
your life.
àThose
things might be said t/w the end of first meeting
-the essence of treatment
-the
contract (and the therapy goals) is flexible
therapist idiosyncratic
– the therapist’s personal rules in the bargain – if you leave,
h.m. meeting b/f do we work at resolution
Class 22/11/06- empathy
-people come to therapy when
they can’t contain themselves. Containment is like holding. W/ small
kids, it’s physical. With adults, it is more emotional/mental –
i.e. empathy. SW needs to be able to contain person despite all his
problems. When people are overwhelmed, they need a place to contain
themselves. Don’t need one event to be overwhelmed – it could be
a whole long series of chronic stuff. His defenses are strained. He
wants to get acceptance of his feelings. Only when he feels that his
feelings are ok, is he able to deal w/ the issue. You need to relate
to his emotions first – i.e. “must be hard to feel so hopeless!”
we have an ability to see beyond problem, not b/c we’re ignoring it
but rather b/c we are (as third person) able to see the repetition,
etc..
Empathy
is the ability not to shut up (i.e. ignoring what she’s saying –i.e.
you must feel tired of me as a client”, so SW should answer – “you
must feel awful thinking that people get tired of you) – deal w/ his
feeling. Empathy is not only saying “wow, that sucks”, but also
to see the logic behind it. We have to see how the dysfunction was the
best way to deal with something in the past. Past reasons for doing
something become current motives as well.
-empathy is not feeling sorry
for the guy but rather getting into his shoes
-Person often comes to therapy
with an externally based view of themselves – “I am XXX [b/c people
said XXX about me]”
-therapy will try to help guy
find himself, and what he really thinks
-therapist has to accept that
client’s culture/goals are not the same as his
àYou have to relate to what he sees
as his problem- we can’t relate to what we sees as problem
-gotta balance b/w his expressed
issue for coming to SW and the offer to deal w/ other issues. We can’t
force the other issue on him but we can suggest that we’re willing
to help
-in cultures where you go to
tribe head/rabbi, and you finally go to treatment, you have to realize
how much trouble he is in.
-In different cultures –
different explanation for different symptoms (i.e. depression = chemical
changes vs. wrath of the gods/god’s will)
Casework
for contract
-when contract
is not clear, then client is frustrated – might leave
-one claim says that contract
is necessary for "maximum feasible participation" of client
Contact in theory
-in 40s/50s, started speaking
about contact in implicit ways: gotta tell client what to expect
-1957 – Perlman - first
reference to contact
Different ideas in a 1969
meeting:
when client decides
to use agency – that is contract [move from applicant to client]
Rapoport:
after initial interview, you should spell out mutual expectations
Sherz: conscious
agreement /w family and SE to get /w a certain goal.
Behavioral modification/Thomas:
you can have an implicit contract as well! You can have verbal or written
contract
Smalley: functional
orientations: contract could be implicit in SWer – i.e. time-frame/renegotiating
over it
Hollis: psycho-social
approach: many prefer to explicitly say this after the initial phase,
and b/f treatment phrase
main idea of contract:
-there id a move from passive
applicant to active client
Schwartz
working agreement which delineates
each side's tasks
Klein: emphasizes mutual
expectations
Note: contract is par
of process:
Contract helps client-SE
interaction w/:
establish mutual
concern
clarify the purposes/conditions
of giving/receiving services
delineate roles/tasks
priorities
allocate time constructively
contract defined
-contract has: element of:
mutuality
participation
action
contract has:
explicit statement
of problem
goal/strategies
tasks of the participant
mutuality
-sometimes, client and SW have
diff assumptions about what is best and what constitutes treatment.
Beall: warns of a corrupt
contract – when client has a stated and acted goal – leads to neurotic
aims and not therapy.
àNevertheless,
clarify expectations to help cooperation – which reduces transference/counter-transference
-clearer expectations is better
progress
Differential participations
-contract helps joint participation
-SW must define for client
what is best way to solve problem and help achieve those tasks
Vattano: SW in group
is just another peer –who is catalyst/theory builder
Zweig: SW should just
be ombudsman – bridge b/w client and services
Studt: SW incorporates
following features:
client is primary
worker in task accomplishment
SW just secondary
- provides the necessary conditions for client to do his tasks
Client does the
task
-implementation of the contract
is supposed to enhance the client's taking responsibly over his life àthus
involve him in decision making, which means also adoptive parents choosing
the kid/corrective clients
Reciprocal accountability:
i.e. in group homes of kids, don't only be accountable to staff
àsometimes,
it is easy to forget the client in the system
Explicitness:
Client comes with an explicit
problem. The SE might want to deal w/ underlying problem
-contract then spells out conditions/expectation/responsibility/planned
interaction
-clarity enhances clients cognitive
functions
-SW perceived client stated
problem as more important that SW view of problem
Applications to practice:
little experimentation w/ contracts has been reported. It seems that
it is atypical or innovative rather than the norm to use explicit contacts
Flexibility:
Contract must be flexible!
You need to guard against rigidity by giving room for reformulation
and renegotiations as circumstances change – again, emphasis should
be on client's perceived need and not SW's interpretations.
-contract and its shape/structure
should take into account the client's idiosyncrasies
Potential of the contract:
-helps client be aware of what's
flying:
* derived from shared experiences
in exploring a situation and reaching agreement on goals and tasks
* gives both sides immediate
involvement and meaningful participation –signifies both are willing
to assume responsibility
* allows for periodic reviewing
accomplishments/assessing progress/examining the conditions of agreement
-enough evidence from client
discontinuance, research of crisis intervention/clinical practice to
see that contract is important
Therapeutic
contract – the wanted and the given
unlike other professions,
in the therapeutic profession, the relationship b/w the therapist and
the client is of the essence
therapist tries
to understand the inside world of the patient
therapist relays
message of being able to speak about anything
How to look?
This is clarified in the therapeutic contract
I.e.
only verbal/use of couch/how many meetings per week/etc…
-each approach has different
conception of contract from open to rigid/highly detailed
Main idea: can't force
others what is unacceptable to him = borders.
àthe
borders are meant to protect both sides' honor
-those boundaries give security,
as if to say – the therapy won't hurt me --
-there is also an element of
expectations – got to lay them out so there won't be any problems/surprises
about what to expect from the therapy
-especially in more dynamic
therapies and when the patient is too stressed out, the patient is not
fully aware of what will come out in therapy or what to expect/what
are his implicit expectations. Thus, the contract needs to be flexible/open-ended/dynamic
-with people who were forced
to go to the therapy – there is not much you can do with them, but
you can invite person to things like saying his take on the issue of
the referring wife/parent
Haredi
Emotional distress
Idioms
of distress: there is a difference b/w core-psychosocial problems
and the way that they are expressed.
You can have 2 kinds of
culture-pathology interplay:
1) cultural contradictions
played on personal turf – i.e. anorexia is conflict b/w a wealthy
society and the culture's preference for thin women
2) expressive
models: where conflict is expressed though the cultural symbols
in pathological ways
-sometimes, cultural symbols
are used to solve conflicts, yet sometimes, it exasperates it.
-gotta map out the subculture's
symbols to see how they fit into the narrative of he pathology of the
client
-the narrative of psychology
=organizes symptoms into meaningful dynamics of he distress àpeople
look for legitimate ways to express their distress
-the usage of the cultural
narrative into the story of the problem allows the patient to make the
conflict/chaos more coherent
Therapy
takes narrative and makes try to change its cognitive defects by:
suggesting the next
scene (in stuck narrative where the conflict makes the person stuck)
alternative actions
of actors in narrative
alternative locus
of control (to undo guilt)
main idea here: on the
here-and-now level, change the interpretation of the narrative, not
what happened in history
-often, in religious groups,
he pathology and experience is explained in religious and not experiential
ways. So religion is often vehicle for denial
àReligion/culture
often hides personal content of pathology. But it doesn't stop it's
existence. The pathology is linked up to the cultural narrative
-especially Haredi patients
might feel that therapy's value's contradict their values
Cultural-based narrative
intervention:
-gotta use symbols that client
brings from his culture and change them for better
àthus,
you gotta know heterogenic things of culture
-Some refer to symbols/narrative
used by client as a "transitional phenomenon"
– experience b/w external reality and internal fantasy. This is similar
to the concept of a child's game or to Winnicot's "potential space".
In such cases, it is advised not to explore where it is coming from.
This leaves the patient w/I his culture and doesn't destabilize the
assumptions of his culture. This approach is dialectic approach where
ostensibly w/I his language of the client. But that just the jargon.
The underlying processes are psychodynamic. If you do not use those
symbols, you may over-attribute them to dynamic processes whereas they
are merely tools for its expression
Therapy
principles
-give new editing techniques
to story
Steps:
understand cultural
elements of story
identify the figures
of story
Change negative
motif. i.e. of guilt
3a) make patient more active
and assertive t/w the figures w/ positivistic message.
-i.e. create new events
in relation to the figures/draft the non-positive figures to your side
àbut
gotta keep in tune w/ culture's values
-sometimes, you gotta repeat
several times the "ritual" of dialogue with the figures in
order to change it
Cultural-sensitive
therapy w/ Arabs
-psychoanalysis's
universalistic approach might nor suit some cultures, like the Arab
culture
Non-formalistic theory:
the client brings his culture's 'explanatory model' of
what is wrong
-when non-western client goes
to western therapy, he understands therapist through his culture's eyes
àCould
lead to dis-communication.
àClient leaves b/c he senses he's not
understood.
-Stigma is stronger in Arab
cultures
-traditionally, Arabs got support
in their families or with traditional healers (you even have koranistic
healers). You have traditional-styled psychiatrists.
àMany
of the traditional healers have therapeutic components and thus should
work hand-in-hand and not in competition.
-often, modern psychiatry fails
when there is no similarity or at least understanding of the world
views of the patient
-the traditional [psychiatric]
therapists use rituals and symbols from the Arab culture.
-the Arab patient tends to
use many symbols, and often transfers distress to psychosomatic problems
-in Arab culture, traditional
healers are more like father figures, they give advise, etc… they
also use family more, while western therapists are detached from family
involvement in therapy
-when the Arab comes to western
therapist, they will b/c frustrated when the therapist is non-directive
and possibly leave
Arab culture
high birth rate
255 million in
21 Arab countries and scattered in world
Paternalistic.
Women take are of home/childrearing, while men work
Level of groups:
nuclear family-extended family-chamula-tribe
High-context
society – the collective is more important than the individual
Polygamy
Exchange marriages
(badal marriages – where brothers marry 2 sisters)
Problem is solved
in group level so individual is not faced with choices. The decisions
are given to him
W/ individual's
disagreement with group, he is outcast
Influence of Arab culture
on therapy
western psychology
is individualistic
In many societies,
there is no separation-individuation! Only continued symbiosis with
family
western society
is individualistic and democratic while Arab culture is group-geared
and authoritarian
no individual self-identity
sharabi:
Arab culture focuses
on group and inter-dependencies (vs. competition b/w them)
acceptance and tolerance
is preferred to activeness and achievements
hierarchical authority
(vs. equality)
communication is
held back/formal/lacks personal relationship (vs. expressive communication)
therapy with
Arabs
-the Arab patient expects therapy
to be more explanatory/learning
àthis
means that Arab patient wants therapist to help him understand better
what is expected from him (dos and don'ts)
-more external locus of
control in such patients. He will search externally for the source
of his problems
Western therapy
Arab therapy
Exploratory
Explanation/educative
Non-directive
Directive
Indirect ways to solve problems
Direct problem solving techniques:
advise/give the solutions for the client
Therapist asks the question
and client answers
Client asks and therapist answers
(this way, the therapist knows the focus of therapy)
Therapist/client equality
Teacher-student quality
to the therapeutic relationship
Therapist expresses his ideas
as suggestions
Therapist expresses himself
as a command or instruction
The therapist is passive/client
is active
Therapist is active and client
is passive
Principles for culture-sensitive
treatment of Arab clients
gotta see the problems
w/I a family/culture context, since individual is an integral part of
them
at first, therapist
has to be more active than what he's used to in order to increase therapeutic
trust
directive
therapy
father-son/teacher-student
type of therapeutic relationship
Arab client will
show closer same sex closeness and more different-sex distance than
what is the standard in western societies
Therapist has to
accept the informal systems of treatment w/I the Arab society and work
with them. The client has and will continue to use them, so you might
as well integrate those systems
women in Arab cultures
are especially stigmatized, so you have to give them a 'clean' setting
– i.e. in medical center
Gotta see his problems
w/I the family/group context. This will bridge the gap b/w the formal
and informal treatments. Studies show that Arab perceives his problems
as supernatural even regardless of educational level
for trust-enhancing
effect, gotta use short-term goals
summery
systematic
eclecticism: take into account both social/cultural and personal
experiences
-with the problem, you have
to take into account system as well as cultural ecology that patient
lives in, as well as mapping out the formal and informal systems used
by client
àYou
can use the dominant figure in family system to help the client. This
is acceptable (and expected on some level) in Arab culture
-therapist should know the
informal theories of that culture so he can integrate formal and informal
theories into a more successful therapy
the
benefit of constructive approach to the cross-cultural practice
-minorities
tend to shy away from mental health
3 parts of article:
1) basic concepts in cross-cultural
therapy (i.e. universalistic therapist vs. culture-bound client)
2) constructive approach to
deal w/ cross-cultural therapy
3) issues which may come up
in implementation of Cross-culture therapy
basic concepts in differing
cultures b/w therapist and client
2 cross-cultural approaches:
1) emic - culture-based
therapy. it even takes into account the sub-culture of client.
problem of emic approach is that it is hard to deal with acculturation/bi-culturation,
b/c even w/i one sub-culture, there is cultural variance between the
people
2) etic: universal
theories are used in therapy. it uses "objectivity" vs. the
client's cultural norms
therapy context:
a term which refers to how much you use formal or informal theories:\
* formal theory level:
uses universal theories
* informal theory level:
uses client's understanding of problem - this approach is controversial,
but successful. the problem is just when therapist and client come from
different cultures
social work: heavily
relies on self-psychology, which wants to get clients self to be integrated
and autonomous. problem with this is that in some cultures, the concept
of self in group-bound/god-bound
constructive approach
to therapy:
-term taken from social psychology.
the assumption is that we can not reach objective truths without understanding
cultural context
-the concept has different
names in different contexts, like "cultural/contextual"
-the approach is controversial
-this approach says that you
can't treat someone w/o understanding his cultural context, like beliefs/social
systems/etc... thus, therapist needs to know what is cultural and what
client’s individual issue is. this approach is meant to reduce stereotypical
thinking about the client
process of seeking help
and finding solutions to the problem
-the existence of the problem,
it characteristics and solutions are defined subjectively by client
-->the patient's perception
of problem influence his level of distress and how he'll seek help.
if therapist can't define the problem, he won't study the meaning of
the problem for each client
help-seeking process has
5 stages:
1) identifying the problem:
the patient must feel subjective discomfort. if culture doesn't
define something as a problem, the client won't either - and will take
longer (higher threshold of the problem) before seeking help
2) recognition of the
problem: if there is an issue but it is culturally acceptable,
then often denial takes place)
3) sources of help:
(4 sources: internal -i.e. depression, social network, professional
help, culture). Different culture promote different ways to cope
4) analyzing the problem:
have to listen to patient's culturally-preferred way of seeing solution.
Therapist can't negate this from him. You have to work with his cultural
way of thinking and not impose your way of seeing things
5) finding appropriate
solution to the problem: cultures have different solution: psychotherapy/drugs/eat
something specific to solve problems. In cultures where solution might
be a eating ritual to absolve of a problem, a common therapeutic solution
is to use both cultural and psychodynamic solution. Problem: therapist
might be ambivalent to the patient culture's solutions (i.e. abused
woman who doesn't want to leave husband yet therapist thinks it’s
a good idea.). Therapist needs to help client find a solution which
to the client is a culturally acceptable solution.
Conclusion:
Constructive approach is
based on following assumptions:
1) problem is with construction
of reality by the client
2) reality construct of person
is not final or static. It is build as a reaction to surroundings
3) therapy is the mutual active
work of both therapist and client
4) therapist doesn't work as
if he has full control over therapeutic process. Client is also partner
to deciding the intervention processes. The therapist temporarily enters
client's world to help him solve problems
5) the therapeutic solution
takes into account the cultural norms of the client's society
Class of 29/11/06 – cancelled
b/c of strike
Russian
Aliya article
Pile-up
of stress:refers to the combination of immigration
stresses, developmental stress and circumstantial stress
3 parts of article
1) unique characteristics of
Russian Aliya
2) special populations w/I
the Russian immigration
3) appropriate interventions
Unique characteristics
of Russian Aliya
-immigration is considered
a macro-crisis since you don't recognize anything in the
new context
-change of scenery/job/profession
sometimes/redo job experience/driver license – sometimes pay is lower
3 stages of immigration:
leaving
– preparation – feeling of cultural loss
transition
– 'living in suitcases'. There is stress b/c lack of certainty and
lack of belonging
new settling
process: finding home/job/school
-in the settling gin process,
there are several stages:
idealization –"honeymoon
stage"
then reality kicks
in àdepression
–thinks it might have been a bad idea to move/critical of new society
with time, adaptation
system kicks in àreorganizes stresses
-at first, there are too many
things in order to undergo the appropriate grieving process. Only
with the realization of gaps in expectation and reality does loss come
in à"shattered
dreams"
Cultural
shock: could have loss of "meaning of life"/dissociation
àneed
to rebuild sense of control in life/SE/adaptation
Different family stresses
-increased stresses since each
family member adapts in different ways
i.e. adolescents tend
to adapt faster - want to b/c more liberal than their traditional homeland
culture. The adolescents also want a more open relationship with parents
àparents
see this as breaching of parental authority and stick harder to traditional
views
-women also adapt faster, which
many times causes family tension
2 ways o deal w/ new
society:
Mono-cultural:
take one or the other society. Sticking to the one culture means very
little contact w/ the other. To the mono-cultural - taking one means
negating the other
Bi-cultural:
taking on both cultures
5 factors in this decision:
difference b/w the
cultures – the bigger the diff., the more closing in from new culture
openness of new
culture to others
perceived openness
how many old relatives
hey have in the country – hey serve as moderators of adaptation
stress history –
dictates how person will deal with present stresses
Idiosyncratic social-cultural
element of Russian Aliya
-each region has various level
of Jewish identity
-others strive for intellectualism
(i.e. Moscow)
-others, i.e. Ukraine, is a
very assimilated population
Culture:
-Russia used to be a dictatorship.
Personal live was run by the gov't
3 factors influence the
lack of choice-making experience:
no choice over important
choices in life b/f they came
complex relation
to authority
-dependence
-demand
for autonomy
-manipulative
approach (in order to survive)
àthe
Russians are especially weary of this b/c the mental health was used
for political ends. Thus therapist must stress less the speaking element
of it.
complex view of
groups. On one hand, they're used to it. On the other hand they're weary
of it after breakdown of USSR
-Russian culture stresses less
the expression of emotions
-the distress level was found
to be same b/w Israeli and Russian, but Russian/American youth who came
on Aliya show diff. symptoms: Russians are more depressed/less SE and
less Social skills
Family issues (which might make the Aliya harder):
multi alternative
family structures
low awareness
of Judaism
forced Aliya
(old/youth were forced to come)
special groups:
adolescents:
also have to deal w/ adolescent issues while dealing with immigration
issues. 4 ways to react: go by the old culture, new culture, both, or
integration. 3 issues come up: generation gap b/c of kids not growing
up in communism, youth adapting faster than parents, and kids being
angry at they parents for the forced Aliya. Often, there is a reversal
of roles where kids help their parents adapt. Kids turn to traditional
ways of help and no mental health b/c of 3 reasons: there is a fear
of authorities in that system, as was the case in Russia; the fear of
being labeled crazy, and thirdly, distrust of adults. Risk factor:
high stresses of Russian youths and little ways of dealing with it
step-families:
have to constantly deal with their complex dynamics while also dealing
with the dynamic processes of immigration. This is especially hard b/c
there is no clear cut rules of being a step-family – they tend to
more strongly hold on to old ways, and reduce integration
ways of treatment with
Russian Aliya
focus less on emotion
and more on knowledge
focus on groups
with same difficulty of integration. Help them normalize their difficulties
remember: 70s Aliya
is ideological and looks down on he 90s Aliya, who came for economic
reasons
language – easier
for the Russians to express emotions/difficulties in Russian than Hebrew
therapy through
speaking is not well taken by the Russians – focus more on concrete
problem solving
Use cultural tools
– i.e. theater goes well with the Russian culture
Summary
-acute stress of the Russian
immigration – many changes
-in helping them , gotta take
into account their characteristics, including limited choice making,
complex view of authorities and groups, negative approach to expression
of emotions, different symptomology of the youths, high number of alternate
family structures and low knowledge of Jewish heritage.
-principles of helping this
population includes alternative services, given by SW who are Russians/speak
Russian. There is significance to emphasis on normalization, use of
groups and in direct approaches
Social
casework: chapters 8-10
Person/problem/place/process
in the beginning phase – chapter 8
-beginning makes or breaks
therapy
à
gives client capsule of trial engagement
-initial stage starts with
initial trial ends when patient agrees to the trial engagement. This
could be immediate or after a few meetings of clarification
Person in beginning stage:
-has a problem he can' cope
with
-hr usually already tied coping
with it
Person comes after giving up
trying by himself, so he goes for outside help
-might feel bad for turning
for help –handing his responsibilities to others. Reciprocally, I
is also hard to ask for help.
-there may be guilt for not
being self-dependent
àhelper
b/c "them"
-there is a fear of what "they"
will say, so he defends himself by:
self-victimization
lowering himself
to lowest possible situation so what 'they" say couldn't possibly
be that bad
shows indifference
-not knowing what will happen
is also hard, so client tries to come up w/ a scheme of what happened
last time
Dual problem: asking
for help and taking help are both hard
Sw consideration should
be:
what is client eligible
for?
Is he willing to
do the pre-requisites for the service?
Is asked at highest tension
point, the client would say he wants:
to be recognized
and accepted as a person in trouble
tell troubles and
what he wants from agency
if and how agency
can help him
process in the beginning:
basic trust – client wants
to know that SE not only wants to help but also can help
-after telling caseworker the
problem, and getting support from SW's attitude, his problem b/c better
illuminated and defined
Main point of beginning
phase: engage the client w/ his problems, and get him to see if
he can do anything about it w/I the agency
Content in beginning
phase – chapter 9
Several common questions
which give essential info:
what is the nature
of the presenting problem
what is the significance
of the problem
what is the cause/onset/precipitants
of the problem
efforts made to
solve problem?
The nature of solution
sought from SW or agency
The actual nature
of this agency and problem-solving means in relation to client and his
problem
2 way exploration of this
data w/ caseworker:
joint understanding
of their roles
next steps in solving
problem
part of the data includes:
-how client thinks/feels/responds
to past/present stressors –i.e. way of coping
Problems with finding the
facts
client presents
his solution to the problem (instead of real problem) and ask SW to
implement it
SE leaps to generalized
conclusions
Bypass the real
problem. We might assign problem to the person when in reality, the
problem is a combination of internal and external problems
-we must remember that emotions
are from the here and now situation. When we find the facts, we need
to include the ambivalent ones
Axiom: in SW, the client
is the source of the facts
Significance of the facts
How significant the problem
is perceived by the client will influence how SW will intervene i.e.
if boy thinks that getting caught as just bad luck =different from one
w/ an understanding of right/wrong
Cause of problem:
-sometimes, it is hard to know
cause-effect of problem. So in mean time, it is best to deal w/ here
and now
-but later, establishing a
cause could help understanding problem and getting at better solutions
Client's problem-solving
efforts and means
When coming for help, person
already tried to solve problem himself
àat
certain point, must shift from what "has bee" to what "might
be"
Answers depend of:
what resources agency
has
how much resources
in client's milieu
motivations and
capacity of client
solution which client seeks
vs. agency's help
-SW must clarify what agency
does.
4 stages of solution discussion:
1) the client's expression
2) Caseworker's explanation
of agency's possibilities in relation to that person's problems, and
in relation to his hopes/fears
4) recognition/assistance to
client to face the ambivalent feelings so he can freely make up mind
to use caseworker's help
Focus in beginning:
selection of problem
which client thinks is most important (start where the client is)
what part of his
total problem falls w/I the function of agency (agency's function must
be clear
which thing in the
SW's mind needs most help and will yield it? (what SW thinks is the
main focus)
Helping client engage w/I
the agency
-client sometimes wants solutions
which are not possible
-we must clarify goals and
expectations of organization and see if he still wants to work with
us.
-at this point, there is negotiation
about what the client expects/feelings/realistic expectancies
àSW
is active at this point. Gives alternative explanations/perspectives.
-if client is unsure of what
to do, encourage him to take responsibility for problem regardless of
whether he chooses to do that through agency or not
Note:
can't pressure person into consenting to come for treatment!
-sometimes, person who first
shows will to cooperate comes back to second meeting with doubts [i.e.
pressure from family, realization that there has to be laborious/sow
change here.
-the fears which crept up on
him have to be spoken about – if not, he'll deal with them by himself
[message: you'll deal with all your emotions yourself!]
àimplication –someone who seems compliant
still needs to deal with his doubt
-Person who wants to use agency
to carry out his solutions [vs. working together for solutions] has
to be shown what areas of his needs can be answered by the agency
Hardest client: the
one who doesn't want to be there, i.e. the person sent there by someone.
Trick is to find a way to reach to them too.
-way
to deal with them is not acting as society's agent but rather of avoiding
trouble by meeting their demands. Hopefully, with time, he will turn
from self- defense to a sense of easiness about himself
-must remember that person
doesn't want to be there –he will reserve trust for when he first
sees results of helpfulness
-discussion should come up
when occasionally resistance comes up through thinking that the process
is now unnecessary
Some comments on technique
-2 kinds of statements by SE
draw out info
[to get a clearer picture of the problem]. Best state it neutral, so
person can reject call of SE to express emotions. There are some facilitating
comments, i.e. which show that SW is listening. This can also be done
non-verbally. The key thing is to make client secure as he speaks about
hard stuff. Nonetheless, must be more directive when it comes to SW
wanting to set borders/redirections. But you have to be directive or
explain the services of the agency, only give info pertinent to client.
provide guidance:
sometimes, explicitly or implicitly, client asks for advice. Many SW
avoid this since the client needs to come to self-dependence. Yet there
are 2 considerations: sometimes, the direction of the expected answer
is implicit in the question ('should I stop smacking my child?")
More implicitly, she's asking SW to attend to her conflict about smacking
the child. So (1) don't pass any request for advice – it may
be a call to bring up a conflict. On other hand, if client plans to
follow advice, this may be different altogether, and there is room for
advice. (2) when there is harm unless advice is given, then it
must be given despite client possibly not listening to it.
Conclusion: therapist's
inquiring and juggling w/ facts and emotions [working t/w dealing w/
conflicts] as well as prob. Solving skills will give client sense of
competence of SW [SW needs to show those skills consistently.
Main point of this chapter:
methodology is inseparable from content. It is perceived by client as
part of what agency does for him. Therapist uses methodology [differentially]
to maximally adapt client
Class – 6/12/06
-read for test up to article
14
Things to keep in mind
contract
interaction:
relationship
content
task
listening
intake meeting:
Beginning:
we have to explain why we're there. Especially when we initiate the
meeting
Second part of
firstmeeting –exploratory - see what the issue is
Ending first
meeting – summing up what was said/opening the door for next time.
Don't open up new stuff at end. Door symptom – saying
the most important thing at the door – could run away/hard to separate/fear
of exposure – therapist must ask to bring it up next time
-sometimes, we take a trial
beginning to see if person really needs this – does the person just
ant ńě ůé÷ĺí and that's it? Or does he want/can he benefit from
therapy?
Interpersonal communication:
-the verbal/non-verbal communication
is the core of therapeutic work. Through this, the client tells about
the past/present/context
-we need to evaluate through
this info - how the client expressing through feeling/his characteristics/etc…
we can have hypothesis
here
ask questions to
get more info
mirroring
might distort what
we're saying [for defensive purposes]
-we have to remember that this
meeting is not a friends meeting. Thus the different body languages
are differently understood by the context of who is the client. Thus
we also have to ask ourselves what the context of setting is – are
we working in an institution –is this institution acting under law?
This could make the difference in differential non-verbal cue's meaning.
Class, 13/11/06
-one of the things in therapeutic
meeting: - a two-factored approach: content+relations/content+process
-perhaps the division b/w what
is said and what is beyond the word
-me as a mirror to the outside
world. Content is the info, while the relationship reflects more unconscious
stuff
More factors
what is said vs.
our goals – could be seen in wanting to go t/w goal and pulling back
listening – we
have to first listen. But we also have to see what he's saying in his
body language. Is there a gap b/w content and non-verbal cues? What
does X mean in his cultural? What person negates is also important –
i.e. if client speaks about mom all the time, the real question
is what's up with dad?
Our reactions are
also read. And our reactions are understood differently in different
contexts. We have to be careful about our non-verbal cues b/c it might
be read as joining someone else's side/etc…
Some cues we have to be
aware of:
distance b/w therapist
and client – men like more distance than women. We can also see how
the clients move closer or further depending on where they are. Is our
body posture closed/open
class 20/12/06
class cancelled b/c of strike
class 27/12/06
-most of today’s discussion
was a discussion
Test:
-multiple choice – 2
choice questions – read up to 14th article.
-articles w/ case study
–need to know the dilemmas. Not the details
-need to know basic concepts
– need to know the essence and not the small details
--
Question: what do
we do in therapeutic intervention?
Answer: until now,
we spoke of content/latent content [i.e. what is not said/non-verbal
cues:
at what point person
reacts in certain ways
how is our reaction
to the client?
does the client
make us feel something different in a specific meeting. For example,
silence in beginning of the process might be different later in the
process
our cues are meant
to facilitate their speaking
-we, in essence have to help
the client bring forth the internal world of the client
àbut
we have to see if he is really to bring up things –for deeper things,
need more basic trust an this takes more time. There is an issue of
timing – when we bring up things, along the cultural sensitivity/etc…
àbut
some of SW action are always good:
listening
– we’re so busy with what we’re going to say that we’re forgetting
that we need to firstly listen and not overcharge the verbal content
of the therapy important: we need to listen also to the content,
but also the non-verbal/latent info/info given through the acting
act. The therapist should limit the amount of speaking he does so the
client can speak about his content/associations/etc. àthis is hard b/c of therapist’s
narcissism
class 3/1/07
tools of therapy include:
listening:
don’t control situation/minimal reactions, perhaps when situation
is stuck/get more info
important for us
only to do things that are beneficial for the client
the question:
it could be a great tool, but it could be tricky.
For example, if
you know the answer, ask it. For example, could it be that ABC.
Topic development
questions
Transference questions
Kinds of questions:
“why”
– unpopular w/ therapists – it has a criticizing tone to it –
could be felt as intrusion. Also, the client doesn’t also doesn’t
always know the answer, so he might feel that he’s being intruded
on. You can phrase it differently
Questions
with answer in them: you can’t refute the answer yet they
might not reflect his internal life, and he’ll feel it
Open question:
allows chance to really answer us
Closed
questions: don’t allow for real answering
-sometimes we want more info
so we ask him:
what do you mean
when you say ABC
silence:
-silence is part of the therapy
– you can’t negate it!!! As a therapist, you have to see where the
silence is coming from:
disorganization
anger
pleasure
etc…
-we have to give room to the
silence!!!
Echoing
-using his words in order to
hear himself. Taking his words and repeating it
C: “it was very hard for
me!”
T: “it was very hard for
you”
àhelps person know that you’re firstly
listening to his feelings
Clarification question:
-“do you mean ABC?”
Mirroring:
One step beyond echoing:
àhere,
we’re not only echoing, but also giving words to the things b/w the
lines
i.e.
C: “I don’t like speaking
about divorce”
T “you must feel scared
of divorce” àleave
room for client to disagree
Interpretation
-some claim say that this is
the most important thing in therapy
-interpretation,
gives explanation/logic of client’s actions/speech/etc…
-it
gives light to deeper processes.
àit
helps person organize his deeper feelings and thus better control them
-gives logic to that which
has been experiences as chaotic
-this comes up a bit later
in later sessions – not in intro sessions
Encouraging
-be very careful with this
b/c this might come across the wrong way:
dependency – that
I need to verify client’s actions/thoughts
-best encouragement: you’re
very brave to do ABC [not “very good”]
Class 10/1/2007
Class discussion of a specific
case of one of the student’s clients
Class 17/1/2007
-today we’re going to speak
about system
-a system is defines as a group
of people with certain rules
Characteristics
Structure/borders/relations
b/w factors in system/time
-social structure is interactions
b/w individuals over time. We can even say of an individual that he
is a system. A system always as a contexts w/I it, it exists. The surroundings
is part of a bigger system. i.e. university is in a neighborhood, which
is not part of the university but the bigger [physical] context –
there are borders and hierarchies among the systems. The borders are
usually somewhat permeable – i.e. some non-students can also enter
the university
-a person could be part of
many systems: a person is also part of a family/university/work –
the different systems influence each other.
-some organizations [i.e. university]
ignores the other systems of the person, and this creates an easier
life for the university, but not for the student [i.e. if university
has certain demands, it ignores other issues that person has do deal
with [in other systems]
-we as therapists have a specific
goal, but sometimes the client is somewhere else and it has to be deal
with
-borders are diff. for diff.
systems. Some have clear borders. Others have less clear border. Some
have clear or less clearly defined borders.
-an open system interacts with
surroundings. Closed systems have almost no contact with surrounding.
This is influenced by how threatening it feels. For example – some
feel that it is unacceptable to have TV/radio
Change in the system:
-occurs when there is tension
b/w the ideal and reality. I.e. when someone changes his role of being
the black sheep – so the system looks for another one/go to therapy
b/c they feel they are falling apart
àThat’s
why you need to look at the whole context when you’re treating someone
Rosenheim
– man meets himself –chapter 8
–therapeutic process
theories
You can speak of 3 levels:
classification
etiology
-explanation
prognosis
–prediction
-theories are inductive-
[they take individual cases and make broad sense of them] – in that
sense, they are deductive – you can deduce individual
cases from it as well [if it’s a good theory]
-theories have nosogies:
categories and recommendations of intervention based on each category
Risk: assuming a-priori
methods before getting to really know the client
-with therapy, diagnostic relevance
tends to reduce
-sometimes we get so stuck
up on theory that we neglect details of what client says, or even worse,
his experience
Responsibility:
2 sided:
choice w/o external
forces
ignore involuntary
internal forces
-therapy doesn’t want to
answer the question of responsibility for unconscious motives – just
to bring it to awareness in order to make more sense of life àget
a perspective in life
2 elements of therapy technique:
client is free to
choose content
therapist might
help direct when client is unclear of himself
Client’s responsibility
views
client takes too
much responsibility
client takes too
little
client wants responsibility
[i.e. autonomy] yet doesn’t want to pay the price of leaving dependency
[ambivalence]
-if mutual autonomy is not
respected, therapeutic atmosphere will be bad àpower-struggles
Space of movement/îřçá
úđĺňä
-SW should give client the
space to run his life, and avoid intervention –unless it is an emergency,
or agreed upon that SW will offer solutions [usually in short term]
-also space to discover internal
world. Free associations is part of this
-includes the right to take
a break from internal content
Downside:
client may scatter
instead of focus
defensiveness [fear
of being ridiculed for internal content]
-SW – is supposed to help
carry the pain’s burden
-sometimes, client will test
to see how safe the therapeutic setting is –and that should be shown
to be fine
Main idea:
freedom of client
to discover what he is ready to discover
undo obstacles
beyond that, client
chooses how to proceed
surprise/curiosity/questions
-active curiosity is essential
to promote therapeutic dialogue. Often, clients are in doubt that they
can be interesting
Question issue:
no leading questions
no questions that
seem to fulfill the interview’s curiosity
open questions are
good
questions should
lead to opening up the client’s internal world
some questions are
meant to spark clients long term thinking
excitement/hope
-when down, it is appeasing
to know that someone takes interest and is delighted to hear you
-hope is gotten when you know
others survived your predicament
Values:
-Important to see how the client/therapist’s
values affect therapy
Dilemmas:
we’re not supposed
to change primary values of others but sometimes, an emotional issue
could be tucked into what seems to be a value – so it might be hard
to separate value from issue
We try to empower
the individual in therapy, but to what extent do we negate the social
balance b/w self and other? Too much altruism is bad, but too little
care for the other is also bad [therapist message could come across
as egocentrism!] – got to find SE not related to others –sometimes
SE is raised by helping others
Just as it is irrelevant
to argue about client’s feelings, so too about his values. On the
other hand, we need to be careful of pathologies hiding behind “values”
Final idea: therapist
acts as a middleman b/w ind. And society – i.e. tries to re-engage
person in society –if client gave up – or by shedding light on social
values to the client
Frank
– SW methods – basic concepts in systems
Open vs.
closed
Open
– dynamic
Closed:
no interaction b/w components
borders:
you can speak of physical/geographic borders or of conceptual border
of the system. The conceptual border of a system is not always so clear
–i.e. where exactly does neighborhood end? Who exactly is part of
it?
System’s
functions:
Task function:
i.e. what is goal of system? Sometimes it is explicit and unclear. b/c
goals are not automatic, the system needs means to reach expected goals
[adaptation to reality in order to reach goal]
Existence
function: how the system goes about their daily functioning?
i.e. what is the hierarchy? What are the roles? [those questions are
important for the system to exist w/o tension and possible collapse]
balance in
the system: need to adapt to ever-changing situation –thus
it is a dynamic balance [constant balance b/w task and existence function]
– can’t have one w/o the other. I.e. ind.’s function is to contribute
to society [task] – need existentials [i.e. food] –can’t have
one w/o other – balance b/w 2 change – i.e. when sick or at work
– also note: no clear border b/w task/existence function
-systems sometimes
take to adapt and if they don’t do it well – this is a crisis
àthere
is a limitation of speed/ability to adapt
Chapter 3
– 4 relevant systems in SW intervention
agent of change
system: the SW
the clientele
system: the target population of the agent of change [whether
defined by policy/law/whatever] – just those who actually we have
some sort of primal contract with
goal system:
what you want to change [i.e. if couple speaks of probs. w/ mother-in-law,
they are the clientele system and mother is goal system]
action system:
group/thing where you interact in – i.e. if SW works in group, that
is the action setting – where the action takes place
system integration:
this concept means that all those systems are integrated and not detached
from each other
End of semester
Class
– 7/3/2007
Diagnosis: we get some
disorganized data and put them into defined categories (analysis) àits
meaning s synthesis
-we diagnose out of our prior
knowledge: we will try to prove or refute our hypothesis based on info
we’re constantly getting from various sources
Diagnosis: is
our theory of what is happening – based on facts and explanations
of them, as well as some looking at the future [i.e. knowing that by
40, ASPD calms down a bit]. We have to remember each psych approach
has its own weights and give diff. emphasis , w/i the diagnosis. Bur
whatever approach, we still have to gather external info and have the
predictive element. Synthesis – see the connections. So thus, we need
to remember which elements to look for in intake
Intake elements to be looked
for:
time:
history/present [what is he doing now]/prognosis
history:
dynamic:
client’s defense mechanisms/the connections/commentary that we give
him
processes
element: today the emphasis could be one thing, with time,
things could change
data to be collected:
demographics: - we can find
out in various levels according to therapy level
city
immigration
family
lives w/ today
housing conditions
economic situation
health
-the data may spark new questions;
i.e. age gap b/w parents/kid/suicide/old kid living w/ mom/other norms
w/i soc
why did you now?
[this also underlines his way of thinking, and possible solutions] –
we can see if he speaks abut problems in other/over-intellectualism/prob.
w/o solution [i.e. it is in my blood]/conditions that client sets that
blocks therapy – i.e. b/c my dad died – so he can’t change anything
given that condition àthis warrants the question of whether
the person is scared of change
-at the end of all of this,
we will say something about this guy’s personality/interpersonal and
internal life
Personality: is the
homeostasis b/w energies w/I person: id/ego and its functions/superego/conflicts
b/w them
14/3/07
-info about past – imp. For
current life – b/c we learn why person specifically deals emotionally
w/ certain issues. Did baby have good dependency/continuity
Things we look at in beginning
early relationships
The ability to leave
ôřăĺú – i.e. leaving high-school/army
Tasks in self-achievement
Interpersonals;
does he have close friends/trust/ask for help
Intimate relations:
what kind of partner/parenting does parent things he has [i.e. does
he only define himself as parent/can person speak of himself as a partner
Important events.
Does person bring it forth? How does he define it
àthen
find connections b/w them based in our professional knowledge of:
normative development
psychopathology
relationships in
families
internal world of
person –i.e. defense/personality organization/maturity
àthen
we have evaluation: personality/life space/skills
and weakness/his vs. contextual influence/ etc… [seeing the gestalt
– the whole person/his situations/systems]
àlook
at past/present/future àfor future, got to see person’s motivation
as well
àthe
evaluation infl. How we will proceed in
Questions
what?
Why did you come
[how do you see the problem]? [perception problem]
why did you come
now? [timing question]
i.e. if one kid
went to therapy and b/c ok àwhy did other brother b/c problematic
[identified patient]
-also imp. to see:
where he lives w/I
context of society: 35 year old living w/ mom
personality:
what is the maximum
he can do/is he rehabilitable
motivation – i.e.
does he want to change/what does he want to change
how much can he
tolerate change
is his expectations
realistic
Personality structure
relationship b/w
id/ego/superego
see personality
w/I specific current situation – people b/h diff. in diff. situations
Thought process:
are there signs
of things from past? Thought is supposed to be the spontaneous/creative
part of life. The question is if ego constantly represses creative impulses
mature love: Capacity
for concern/consistent love/balance b/w emotions and intellect
class 21/3/2007
things we’ll look at w/
meeting a person
personality structure
ego functions
defense mechanisms
personality structure
-some questions are asked when
meeting a person:
past events still
haunting him?
Does this infl.
His thinking? This infl. His emotions too
does ego regulate
impulses – ĺéńĺú řâůĺú
is person able to
have mature love –i.e. mutual care
does person not
have balance?
Too emotional to
intellectually understand what’s flying, or vise-versa
is there stability
or lability in emotion?
Anger t/w parents
which makes function in present?
Is person able to
see goals in conflict
Reality perception:
does he distort reality?
How much is his
identity coherent? How does he perceive himself? [grandiose/degrading] àCan
person deal w/ criticism w/o it breaking up my whole personality
How does person
deal w/ organization he’s in [i.e. also take responsibility]
Is intelligence
w/I normal range [vs. below or above]
ST/LT memory problems?
Is concentration
ok?
Got to watch out
for diff. in culture
Defense mechanisms:
-supposed to keep balance in
internal life
àdefend
against emotional pain
àjust like baby sleeps in order avoid
over-stimulus
-when we have intrapsychic
conflict:
drive vs. drive
reality vs. superego
superego vs. is
id vs. reality
-so this causes anxiety and
defense mechanisms are supposed to help us run our lives normally
The differences in the defense
mechanisms is:
primitive [i.e.
less integrative] vs. mature
rigid vs. flexible
-we all have defense mechanisms.
But the ones coming to therapy are the ones where the defense mechanisms
aren’t helping as much as he’d like or distorts reality/our functioning
Class – 2/5/2007
-today, we’re gonna speak
about the 12 functions of the ego
Freud: there
are 3 structures making up the person
Id: most inate things
stem from here
Ego: helps id deal
w/ reality – develops later
Super-ego: after
things of the ego have been internalized in “my own” – it is
an internal motivating force
12 functions of ego:
Reality testing
-seeing that person’s action
or thinking are reality/normative
àthe
main thing is: seeing the difference between inside me and reality
àif
not: psychosis
Judgment
-Does person understand cause-and
effect? Also socially?
Reality experience:
-the experience of reality
and myself] as being real. If not: derealization [reality is
foreign to me] or depersonalization [I am foreign to me –i.e. eating
disorder: this is not really my body] those are often seen in panic
attacks
-in psychosis, it is extreme
Drive
management:
-the ability to deal w/ drives:
know when to hold in frustration. i.e. not shouting back at boss/dealing
and holding w/ anxiety
-also: how do I express drives:
do I deal w/ drives: blow things up/acting out or dealing w/ it is more
subtle ways: talking about it later. The other extreme is holding in
drives too much. i.e. the one who doesn’t see/speak about his anger.
The ability to express emotions/drives is the integration of socialization
and temperament/constitution [i.e. inborn drive level]
àof
course, we have to see how this plays out in reality: i.e. if we deal
w/ something extreme, i.e. news of a death. There, we’d expect les
of a person to deal w/ frustration than the regular frustrations of
life
-ĺéńĺú řâůĺú
Object relations
-those theories deal w/ how
I interact w/ others – i.e.:
how do I choose
my friends
how symbiotic am
I/how distant vs. close am I?
how long does relationship
last?
Object constancy
[i.e. how much can I maintain the relationship even if the other is
not here?
How differentiated
am I? [i.e. narcissists see their kids as extensions of me]
Those things develop w/ therapy
Thinking processes;
-the thinking level relates
to perception/concentration/memory/expressing verbally the thoughts
Primary
thought: no time/space/logic –the wills are real: “I need”.
There is no concept of cause-and-effect. There is no symbolization
in primary thought –it is overly concrete. Thus, dreams are not necessarily
all symbolic.
Secondary thought:
more rational/has time-and-space/cause-and effect. I don’t “need”,
but I “want”. It has symbolization
Winnicot/ogden: there
are people who think in “a-dog-is-a-dog” fashion – can’t see
the symbolism here! [case-study: kid who sees puppet-play and got confused:
couldn’t see the point – was too busy thinking how it was done,
and not about the plot or the message or underlying themes]
Class 8/5/2007
Assignment discussion:
-also relate to ways of thinking
in anamnesis of work
-speak about ego functions
-add when problem started
When does therapy end?
How do you conclude a therapy?
Views:
symptoms are
reduced
ability to
have intimate relationships – it usually develops fully by
the end of adolescence –i.e. fully see person as a fully separate
person- if not, lower differentiation [i.e. what I/he wants are enmeshed]
structural
difference in personality – i.e. more mature defenses/more
varied defenses
changes in
transference/counter-transference: allows for better interactions
-those above views relate to
unforced ending. It contains mutuality. But then there are cases of
forced ending; end of practicum, birth/fleeing from therapy/etc. in
those settings, the ending is not necessarily processed or mutual
-we don’t want the ending
process to be rushed, so the client can process. We may meet previous
endings of client which were traumatized, and are now reactivated.
-there is a bereavement process
in loss
Expected stages:
shocks
accepting the loss
– anger might come up. Davis speaks of the sense of rejection in the
following way: you scammed us into their relationship and now you’re
laving, after I invested emotional energy into this! –the anger might
be turned inwards – I am now worthy of relationship. There may have
very primary forms of dealing with loss coming up: i.e. splitting [you’re
the best – system sucks for stopping the therapy], rationalization
[i.e. its no ones fault – yet no dealing w/ the pain], etc…
accepting the loss
-we can use our emotions to
see what is going on into the room – i.e. if therapist feels guilt
for leaving, then there may be idealization by the client, etc…
Imp:! we need to allow
the client also to speak of the pain/anger/sense of disappointment or
rejection/etc…
-we may have some less mature
parts us who feel anger or something for the client leaving off, but
we also have to relate to our more mature part that says: “ok –
it is what he wants”
-even in forced concluding
of therapy, there is also room for summary –of what did take place/what
you can work on in the future [of course, after the anger phase of the
client]
àsometimes,
client moves on to other therapists, but sometimes he doesn’t –
we have to prepare client for either case – in ay case, we must
allow for his feelings to come up
Ending stage:
-this ends the concluding part:
-important to speak about what
happened in the therapy/ speak about what growth took place/what he
internalized from the therapist [i.e. next time X happen, what would
you say/what would I as your therapist say]. What is hard about the
termination of therapy? What is client scared of will happen after ending
of therapy? – speaking about the ‘day after” the therapy, reduces
the stress/pain of the loss of completion of the therapy
You might see:
Anger/denial/new
material [don’t let that happen]/renewing the therapy – i.e. through
regressing/speaking with more detail – as if to say – “see, Mr.
Therapist! We did not do anything yet!”
direct blaming
passive-aggressive
– won’t speak/interrupt the therapist/etc…
sadness
anxiety of what
will happen after the therapy
blaming oneself
regression
-symptoms reemerge
person comes late/forgets
sessions
experience of rejection
by therapist – so I control what’s up – so I, and not you say:
“it is me and not you”
it is important
to speak about those things, b/c this may be the first time/place he’s
speaking about emotions
-we may also be ambivalent
so we need to hold him as well as deal w/ our own uncomfortable feelings
about the conclusion
developmental stages,
and how he was describes at those stages [i.e. withdrawn/no friends]
family background
and info – what parents do/work/relationship/diseases/new family/
parents divorced or remarried/parent’s atmosphere/etc…but tell the
story through patient’s eyes
Schooling [add problems
if they exist]
Army [and problems
if they exist]
Work history [and
problems if they exist]
When problem got
worse/outbreak and history of problem/hospitalization – current treatment
and problem status
Family background:
Mom’s history/job/health/personality
as how it comes out t/w patient/relationship w/ patient
Relationships in
the family [be specific!]
-the first part should be very
objective – no interpretations
--6/6/2007--
After that:
reason for referral
it gives baseline for therapy/prognosis. It also says a lot about motivation,
defenses [my wife is…./I need welfare benefits]
àyou
got to ask: why did he come now? What happened now? [why did her defenses
collapse?]
Then:
current therapeutic
relation – can you say something about patient through the
therapy
personality:
i.e.:
Intelligence
Defense mechanisms
– i.e. tends to run away/poor emotional regulation in times of stress/projections/splits
Interpersonal
relations – i.e. close vs. distance conflict and he chooses
extreme closeness and then throws them out
àspeak
about experiences and also using dynamic terms
àdependency/existential
threat/locus of control [i.e. black sheep]/ego strengths/is his feeling
of competence realistic? Diff. b/w her abilities and her perception
of them. Is the parts of her personality integrated? Can she make that
integration
Dynamic
formulation: this is an open clause for what we think: what
we think is the external logic àmaking sense of everything we said
until now. i.e. in the past, she had many unprocessed losses, so she
gets sucked into relationships w/ separation anxieties. And w/ differentiation
hardships, she does splits b/c that is her way to deal w/ separations/losses
recommendations
for future sometimes there needs no further action
got to see motivation
– does he want the help? Can he deal w/o treatment when he doesn’t
want
is what we offer
what the person really needs?
What are the goals
of our treatment plan?
Prognosis: will
it help? Does he really need our help
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– ability to see future based on what we do now
Drive regulation
= how do I react – aggression
Object relationship
= the quality of relationships w/ others
when well
developed – ability to see personality nuances/all parts of
the person
neurotic
– we can’t see all parts of others b/c we are too busy looking at
ourselves – i.e. We’re too busy w/ our neurotic narcissism, we’re
looking at his evaluations
depressive
– do the split à good and bad
too busy w/
themselves – too busy looking at selves to see others –
person is a function/extension of me
borderline
– no integrated sense of the other – idealization vs. devaluation
schizophrenic
–empty
thought processes
– perception/memory/verbal expression of thought
Regression
in the service of the ego –
regression
could also be good – when moving from reality to looking inside/fantasies/creativity àwhen
they cause pleasure and are adaptive. If not adaptive, then it is bad
and feels that way too
Very rigid
regression
Chronic regression
= bad àneed
to be able to get out of fantasy
Regression
w/o inspiration vs. those who are able to use fantasy to build
something –i.e. comics/artists/speakers/etc…
Defense mechanisms
– are a measure of ability to deal w/ internal conflicts/conflicts
b/w inside and outside world. The main question is how much they serve
my ability to adapt to reality àwhen they collapse, the person b/c
overwhelmed
Some are more
primitive – usually unable to reduce anxiety
Projection:
I am perfect while other
Split
[related to projection] – I split and then project all the bad to
others
Extreme denial
Reaction formation
Somatization
more mature defenses
rationalization
displacement
internalization
stimulus threshold ài.e.
how we filter our stimulus – can I deal w/ overly intense emotions?
Do I need strong stimulus in order to react
sublimation
Mastering
Competence – is
he able to do tasks
What is self-evaluation
regarding task = able/failure
The link b/w them
= if there is a bigger gap =more of a problem
synthetic/integration
factor – the ability to deal w/ ambivalence/internal contradiction
in stance/emotions = able to have conflict. i.e. id v. superego and
reality or ego’s multiple [contradictory] tasks –i.e. integrating
both loving and hating t/w same person ài.e. opposite of split àintegration
of all emotions/stance/reality àis our experience more 3-D/full?
àlack
of this is for example laughing at tragedies/living day to day w/o big
plan
End of Course!
Bloom article
Specifying Problems and Goals:
Targets of Intervention
Bloom, Fisher, Orme (1995)
Intro: From General
Problems to Specific Targets of Intervention
If you clearly define
a problem you have taken a major step towards its solution
Professional service
begins with the question: what client problems need to be solved and
what goals need to be achieved?
Specifying the problem
is essentially the beginning step – identification and clarification
of problems and goals are difficult because of the many ways one might
try to get hold of these complex human events
Target refers
to the specific object of preventative or interventive services that
is relevant in a given situation – there are several ways to think
about what aspects of the client’s life situation we want to influence
Operationalizing
means that you clearly specify the actions you would go through in order
to observe or measure the client’s problem – this can be done through
standardized test or recording certain repeated actions (ex: how many
times a patient cries during an interview can be a measurement of how
depressed a client is)
There are many ways
to specify measurable operations that indicate the nature and extent
of the target – which ones you select depends on the nature of the
case
Being clear and
specific about the problems and goals allows for the selection of both
specific intervention procedures and specific measures related to these
identified problems and goals – by repeating such measures you can
know explicitly what changes are occurring in the target and adopt suitable
responses
Sometimes you may
need to break down a complex problem into component parts if possible
– as each component is changed, the enire complex problem becomes
modified
Specifying problems
and goals lead to more precise selection of intervention methods and
related procedures, clearer evaluation of results, ad more effective
services
Specifying Client
Concerns: Identifying and Clarifying Problems and Potentials (move from
an area of concern felt by the client as problematic to a target on
which client and practitioner can agree to work)
Preliminary Steps
in Identifying Problems
Survey Client Concerns:
Starting Where the Client Is
Review all the matters
of concern to the client
This is a preliminary
survey of the problem bout how the client perceives the problem
This can be done
through a list from scratch or a check list
It isn’t necessary
to go into too much detail at the beginning
Go over the list
with the client to make sure it is complete
Select a Problem
Its very difficult
to focus on one problem and be as specific as possible in defining it
Some practitioners
prefer not to select a problem until a more comprehensive assessment
has been conducted and others prefer to select a problem prior to the
formal assessment process
Problem selection
involves two steps: 1. determining the priorities within the problem/situation,
and 2. specifying the problem per se, or moving from the vague to the
specific
It is recommended
to focus on strengths or assets when possible and attempting to increase
or build on these strengths rather than trying to decrease deficits
because: 1. it is easier to build on strengths than decrease negative
behavior, 2. by focusing on increasing positive behavior you will more
likely receive support from your client, and 3. it is more compatible
with our values as helping professionals
Prioritize Problems
Review the written
list of concerns that was developed earlier with the client
Select one concern
because this is the best way to marshal resources
You should attempt
to work with the problem that meets as many of the following criteria
as possible:
It is one that clients
prefer to start with or about which they are most concerned
It has the greatest
likelihood of being changed
It is relatively
concrete and specific
It can be readily
worked with by you given your resources
It has the greatest
chance of producing the most negative consequences if not handled
It has to be handled
before other problems can be tackled
Changes in the problem
will result in tangible observable changes which will increase the patient’s
motivation to work on other problems
Guidelines for Going
from the Vague to the Specific: Operational Definition of the Target
of Intervention
Help the client
operationalize problems – help them redefine them in more precise,
observable terms
This helps the client
and practitioner get a clearer understanding of the agreement about
the nature and occurrence of the problem so that they can take action
on it and so that they will agree on what is to be changed
This also helps
the client and practitioner evaluate their practice
The problem becomes
operationalized as the target of intervention
The use of this
model will help clarify some of the conditions that may be affecting
particular occurrences of the problem
Clarity
The job of the practitioner
in these cases is to help translate vague or even inaccurate descriptions
into specific and accurate ones
Ask the client to
give concrete examples of the occurrence of the problem
Ask the client to
try to identify when and where the problem occurs, perhaps to actually
observe and record its occurrence
Consider doing a
function analysis of the relationship between the problem and the personal,
interpersonal or environmental events that could be affecting the occurrence
of the problem
A-B-C model: A refers
to antecedents of the problem ; B refers to the behavior or the actual
occurrence of the problem; C refers to consequences, what happened as
a result of B
A-B-C model will
help clarify the problem and may even give some preliminary ideas of
intervention
Countability
Think in terms of
counting in order to start thinking in terms of how often the problem
occurs and how long it occurs for
Turning vague, global
statements into specifics can help pinpoint the problem
Focus on specific
occurrences rather than on generalizations or motives
Verifying Sources
Try to find a way
of knowing that the problem does in fact exist and a way for documenting
when, where, and how often it occurs
You can do this
by observing the client’s behavior or looking into agency records
Think of the problem
in terms of the possibility of two or more people being able to agree
on its occurrence
When it is possible
and agreement between client and practitioner is reached, you should
have more precise idea of the nature of the problem
Dereify
One major impediment
to defining problems in specific terms and with real world referents
is what is called reification – refers to the treating of abstractions
or constructs as though they were real things
In order to avoid
this you must convert the abstraction into an adjective, for example:
turn “mary is aggressive” into “mary demonstrates aggressive behaviors”
– then you need to identify what those behaviors are and then describe
the situation in which the behavior occurs
Increasing and
Decreasing
Thinking of what
needs to be increased and decreased almost automatically helps you pinpoint
and specify problems
This can also be
used as a guide for intervention techniques – focus on increasing
or decreasing behaviors, thoughts, or feelings
h. Measurability
Consider diff ways
a given problem can be, or has been measured
One of the key guidelines
to think about when helping clients define their problems is how these
might be sensitively, but more or less objectively, measured including
how other practitioners have measured them sensitively in the past
Case Illustrations
of Operationalized Problems
Many examples of
cases
Each case share
some basic characteristics in how they operationalized the problem
All of the measures
used were indicators of the problem, and to be successful, they had
to be as close as possible to the problem without being burdensome for
anyone to use
The measures involved
thoughts, feelings, actions of individuals, as well as collective actions
of groups or clusters of people
Practitioners had
to be careful about whom they asked to collect the data
Every practitioner
can come up with some reasonable and innovative measures customized
to the situation at hand
Specifying Goals
and Objectives
Problems involve
what currently hurts or disturbs the client; goals are preferences about
the future
Goals indicate what
the client would prefer to happen, to do, or to be, when the intervention
is completed
Goals provide the
standard or frame of reference for evaluating whether the client is
moving, and whether the destination is met
Goals provide the
opportunity for ongoing feedback and help decide whether the end has
been attained
Unfortunately, goals
are stated in abstract or vague terms
Definition of Terms:
Goals and Objectives
Goals are statements
about what the client and relevant others would like to happen or do,
or be when the intervention is completed
It is necessary
to first move through a sequence of manageable steps or sub-goals (intermediate
goals, objectives, outcome objectives) which are defined in exactly
the same terms as goals
A objective for
one client may be a goal for another
Objectives or goals
are outcomes for the client rather than interventive activities or tasks
in which the practitioner is engaged in – all goal and objective statements
refer to client or client-system attainments; interventive tasks can
be specified in a separate statement
Expect that the
intervention will have an effect on the selected targets – a target
that isn’t the focus of an intervention is unlikely to improve in
response to that intervention, and this can give the misleading impression
that the intervention is ineffective
Goals are directly
related to the problem and should reflect that relationship
Components of Specific
Goal Statements
Specify the problem
and then it’s the practitioner’s task to develop clear and specific
outcome objectives and goals that can serve to guide the rest of the
intervention process
Try to develop specific
outcome goals for each problem encountered – might need multiple goals
for one general problem area
Goals and interventions
should have at least 4 components
Who?
Objective and goals
should be stated in terms of intermediate and ultimate outcomes for
the client (do not state goals in terms of what the practitioner
will do; that can be defined as intervention methods or procedural objectives)
Outcome goals should
be stated in terms of what the client will do or be like when the intervention
is completed
Will do what?
Attempt to state
in measurable terms what clients actually will be doing to show that
they have achieved the goal
Some performances
are obvious and others are hidden
Think in terms of
indicators – when you have some direct way that will indicate the
presence of the alleged performance; this direct way becomes the key
measurement indicator
May be helpful to
think in terms of increasing or decreasing the targeted problem –
stating the goal in terms of what the client will be doing, linking
interventions with this goal, and suggesting ways of measuring outcome
Try to state the
goals in positive, not negative, terms
To what extent?
Establish how well
and how often the target event occurs – establish a level of performance
(criterion level) that will be acceptable
It is important
to establish a baseline in order to use for comparison with changes
in the target during the intervention program
Sub-goals are most
important because the achievement of them will then serve as additional
reinforcement or motivation for continuing on the next step
Sub-goals should
be set in ways that are as close to achieving the goal as possible but
that are comfortable and realistic for the client
Success or failure
in achieving one objective can provide information on what the next
objective should be
Using Statistics
to Set Goals
Must be precise
in identifying what you are shooting for in terms of an actual target;
when this isn’t easy it is recommended to use statistics
Goal setting is
usually done in the context of client and societal values or physical
realities; use statistics when there are no natural markers and social
values are unclear
Use baseline information
to set a level for the intervention phase at which the change will be
statistically significant – plot the data received from the intervention
phase on your chart and see whether it is significant
Setting Goals in
Groups
Difficult to identify
and operatonalize goals for any client but its even more difficult to
do it for a group – maybe because fewer practitioners have been trained
to think about groups as groups, or about the problems or objectives
of groups
Must distinguish
true group problems and objectives from the individual problems and
objectives of people who may be seen in groups
The practitioner
should always reflect as fully and faithfully as possible the nature
of the group being evaluated
It may be useful
to collect individual scores on related topics so that the relative
status of each individual may be compared with the group as a whole
If group norms are
related to individual behavior, then an individual’s score that shows
an inconsistency with the norm may suggest the need for extra counseling
or enhanced group efforts to help this particular individual
Goal Attainment
Scaling (GAS)
Widely used method
for establishing and tracking goals (assists in goal definition and
goal measurement) – can apply to goal-setting activities for both
individuals and organizations
Used by many members
of the helping professions
Its basic procedures
involve identifying client problems, assigning individualized weights
to those problems, estimating the client’s expected outcome/goals
for each problem area, and averaging outcomes across all problems for
each client or all clients within a given program
Basic Guidelines
for Using GAS
Collecting Information
– standard sources of assessment are used, including interviews, direct
observation, questionnaires, reports from those in the environment,
and/or any methods of data collection prescribed by a particular agency
Designation of Problem
Areas (look at chart on page 86)
Break down the assessment
data into a series of “problem areas” – identify those positive
areas or strengths that should be increased and those undesired areas
that should be decreased; all of the problems are listed and prioritized
For each problem
area a scale of behaviors is developed
Each problem area
is given a title – the problem can then be described in more specific
but brief detail under each title
Since the problems
are prioritized, you can weigh each one in the space next to the title
– without weights, each scale or problem is seen as equally relevant
Predictions for
Each Problem Area
GAS is intended
to operate within a time limit so a specific follow-up point should
be set for each scale or problem area
A series of predictions
is made for each scale and a most desirable variable should be used
as a measure – for each of the variables a range of outcomes is possible
(range from very negative to positive)
Most important point
on the scale is the “expected level” or midpoint because this is
the most realistic prediction of outcome – this should be the first
part of the scale that is developed
GAS can be used
as a context to help establish goal statements, and the results of repeated
collections of data on the target problem can be used for regular monitoring
Follow-Up “Interview”
Evaluation of the
outcome which can be done by the practitioner with the client
Because the expected
length of intervention is preset, this part of the process should not
be a surprise to anyone
Care should be taken
so that the interviewer avoids overly subjective or biased evaluations
To record level
of success achieved, a check or asterisk can be inserted in the appropriate
box of the follow-up guide
If the problem areas
are broken down into more or less objective, or highly specific, variables,
outcome will be relatively easy to determine
GAS contains no
built-in systems for regular feedback which can be problematic
Problems and Issues
in Setting Goals
Anticipate Negative
Outcomes – anticipate results and examine them with clients so that
they will be prepared
Who Sets the Goals?
Client should have
the major, if not sole, say in setting goals – practitioner is there
is help the client be more specific about what he or she wants
Whenever possible
the client should have the predominant say but if this isn’t completely
possible then the practitioner needs to at least be sensitive to the
client’s interests and desires
Goals must be acceptable
to both client and practitioner
It is the practitioner’s
responsibility to provide as accurate and as honest information as possible
in evaluating how workable the goal is
Anticipate Impediments
– list of 12 in the article
Case Illustrations
of Goals in the Context of Problems and Interventions (tables and charts)
The First Session: An Interpersonal
Encounter
Elsa Marziali
Various factors
influence both the process and the outcome of the first sessions between
worker and therapist
Clients and workers
approach the first interview with different motivations and expectations
The worker reveals
very little about himself while the client is expected to reveal the
most intimate details about himself
The worker hopes
that he will obtain an accurate understanding of the client’s problems
and the circumstances of those problems
He feels he must
collect a large amount of information in a single interview
The worker hopes
for a cooperative client
If the client is
unable/unwilling to reveal the required information then the worker
must set aside his agenda and attend to the blocks that hinder the client’s
cooperation
The interview may
take one of two courses
The worker will
help the client explore those factors that contribute to the client’s
reluctance to participate in the therapeutic process
The worker will
reassure the client that his confusion can be understood and that his
expectations of the therapist are not invalid
When the client
feels that his emotions, behaviors, and thoughts are accepted and understood
then he will feel more comfortable sharing more information with the
therapist
After this process
the therapist will have demonstrated how treatment works and what the
client might hope to gain from it
The worker will
avoid acknowledging or dealing with the client’s blocks
The worker continues
asking the client questions and the information that is gained under
these circumstances is factual and uninformative
The client’s reluctance
may be because he is afraid the worker will judge him and respond negatively
The worker hides
behind his professional status and blames the client for being uncooperative
There are complex
variables in the client-worker relationship
Clients who are
cooperative and engaging are more readily helped because they match
the worker’s expectations
Frightened or angry
clients are less willing to open up and expose aspects of their problems
which in turn tax the worker’s skills and confidence and ability to
help
The needs to be
emphasis on observing and managing these psychological phenomena in
the first meeting
Subjective Contracting
Contracting is when
the client and worker reach a shared definition of the problem and express
mutual agreement about goals, tasks, and respective roles
The therapist must
be aware that the subjective-interpersonal factors that aren’t discussed
can either interfere with or enhance the therapeutic process
If the subjective
factors aren’t recognized by the worker as they come up throughout
the first meeting then they wont be managed in a therapeutic manner
Only when the important
interpersonal factors are acknowledged and managed can the client begin
to be treated in a correct manner
The therapist must
remember and acknowledge that the treatment of problems occurs in the
context of human relationships
Clinical Perspective
Supervision is the
teaching-learning practice that is used to help SW trainees integrate
the theoretical education into clinical practice
There needs to be
a huge focus on inter-subjective factors in supervision because the
student must realize how important personality and situation factors
are
In the first meeting
the worker must make attempts to understand the interpersonal elements
of the therapeutic relationship – the student is helped to observe
subjective reactions to clients and use these observations to enhance
their understanding of the client (which in turn communicates to the
client understanding)
Research Perspective
There is an increasing
number of clients who fail to return for a second interview
Many studies have
considered that when the therapist-client expectations are similar there
is be more reason for continuance of therapy
Some say that when
clients feel understood by the worker they want to attend the next appointment
The socioeconomic
status of the client also influences whether or not they will return
Both clients and
workers felt that a feeling of alliance after the first session led
to more productive sessions in the future
Summary and Conclusions
The first interview
has three aims
Establishment of
an initial collaborative alliance
Collection of data
necessary for understanding the client’s problem and for making appropriate
treatment recommendations
Demonstration of
treatment interventions that contribute positively to the first encounter
and that illustrate to the client how treatment works
Important information
about the client’s problematic status can be obtained only in the
context of a beginning, positive working relationship
Must be able to
examine both the descriptive data and the subjective contributions to
the therapeutic interaction
The feelings of
both the client and worker must be recognized
Supervision which
emphasizes awareness of the subjective phenomena is also important
A therapist must
demonstrate a capacity for grasping the many levels of meaning that
the client attempts to communicate
The Preliminary Phase of Work
Shulman
Communications in
Practice
Human Communications
An idea must be
encoded and transmitted
The message must
be received
Massage must be
decoded
The recipient must
acknowledge the message by providing the sender with some form of feedback
Obstacles to Direct
Communications
In the helping relationship
additional factors can complicate the process
The obstacles usually
result in a client employing indirect methods to express thoughts and
feelings
Ambivalence - Because
society puts a lot of value in independence, a client may feel uncertain
about asking for help and may present concerns in an indirect manner
Societal Taboos
– Taboos in society may make it hard for a client to speak about certain
things which may cause him to use indirect methods of communication
Painful Feelings
– A client may not want to discuss painful feelings which can lead
to him sharing the facts of an issue while ignoring his own feelings
(can lead to a poorly adaptive defense)
Powerful Authority
Figures – Some people in the helping profession have power over the
lives of their clients and this power can become a major obstacle
Examples of Indirect
Communications in Practice
Hinting is an important
indirect cue; the client makes a comment or asks a question that contains
a portion of the message (ex: a mother asking a worker if she has children
can be an indirect question of “will this worker be able to understand
me?”) or the client’s behavior can also hint to something (ex: a
child acting out)
Metaphor and allegory
can be used by clients as means of indirect communication where the
worker must use his skills to reach for the underlying message
Nonverbal forms
of communication also send important indirect messages (ex: negative
behavior can be a client sending an indirect message to the worker)
A worker must learn
how to “tune in” to what the client is saying in any of the above
cases
The Preliminary
Phase: Tuning into Self and to the Client
Tuning in involves
the worker getting in touch with the feelings and concerns of the client
in order to help the worker become more sensitive to the client’s
situation (preparatory empathy)
When the worker
tunes in he will be able to hear the client’s indirect cues and be
able to respond; he will be able to help the client manage his feelings
Tuning into the
Authority Theme
This allows the
worker to focus on issues related to the relationship between the client
and social worker – for example, this is important when the worker
is young and unmarried and the client is married and has 5 kids
It is normal for
clients to wonder if new workers will be able to relate to them or if
they will be like previous unhelpful workers
Workers should be
tuned in to clients’ potential concerns in order to prepare responses
before they are even brought up
Sometimes it is
appropriate for the worker to share his concerns about being able to
relate to the client because otherwise the energy invested in suppressing
those concerns won’t be able to be used to help the client himself
It is important
for the worker to come off as being sincere and genuine and tuning in
can help this
“Reflection”
(repeating what the client has said) can be damaging to the helping
relationship, instead “containment” (staying quiet for a few moments
and trying to feel what the client is feeling/has felt) should be used
in order to respond with more sincere reactions that may deepen the
conversation
The “working relationship”
is a precondition for helping a client
through his activities
the worker can develop a positive working relationship with the client
the way the worker
and client talk and listen to one another helps this relationship develop
it is untrue that
the worker must establish a relationship first and then begin to work;
the relationship grows out of the work itself and a worker needs to
get down to business quickly
the relationship
is a part of the work
There are many elements
to a working relationship
Rapport – general
sense on the client’s part that he or she gets along well with the
worker
Trust – the client’s
perception that he can risk sharing thoughts, feelings, mistakes, and
failures with the worker
Caring – the client
senses the worker is concerned about him as a client and that the worker
wishes to help him with those concerns that the client feels are important
The ability of the
worker to tune into the unspoken feelings/concerns of the client and
then to articulate these to the client contributes to the working relationship
Skills for helping
the client manage their feelings were found to have a positive effect
on the client at the beginning of the working relationship
If a worker has
passed over a client’s indirect cues in the past then they can go
back and reopen what he may feels is “unfinished business” – clients
also love it when workers share mistakes because it shows them as a
human being
Skillful practice
involves learning how to shorten the time when a worker makes a mistake
and when a he catches it – the best is to catch a mistake in the session
that the mistake it made (active mistakes)
Silences are full
of meaning but sometimes are hard to interpret
Workers are usually
more effective than they think they have been – they tend to underestimate
the positive effect they have on their clients
Workers should
always learn from past clients in order to improve the way they interact
with future clients – it will be hard for a worker to help a client
manage his feelings of guilt is the worker is overly judgmental of his
own work
Affective Versus
Intellectual Tuning In
To tune in effectively
the worker must try to actually experience the client’s feelings –
recall similar experiences in order to put him in touch with feelings
related to those of the client
The struggle to
deal with one’s own feelings persists throughout one’s professional
life – the worker should reach out for additional support from colleagues
(those who do are more effective at providing the same support for their
clients)
Tuning into the
Worker’s Own Feelings
Its important for
the worker to get in touch with his own feelings – how we feel can
have a great deal to do with how we act
By tuning into one’s
own feelings and experiencing them before the engagement, their power
to block the worker can be lessened – the helping process is one in
which workers learn a great deal about their own feelings as they relate
to their professional function
The worker needs
to learn to understand his feelings instead of pretending to deny their
existence
Different Levels
of Tuning In
Tune in to
the general category of the client (social worker at a residential center
for delinquent adolescent boys would tune into the general category
of adolescents – the worker must try to remember what it was like
to be an adolescent)
Tune in to
the specific client (youngsters who are in trouble with the law)
Tune in to
the specific phase of work (an adolescent has been judged a delinquent
and is about to enter a new residential setting)
The first efforts
of tuning in always pick up resistance which reflects the worker’s
frustrating past experiences – it is a statement of the worker’s
concerns that the client won’t want help
The worker must
have a sense for the client’s potential for change otherwise the worker’s
pessimistic stereotype of the client will meet head on with the client’s
pessimistic stereotype of the worker – tuning in is the first step
in trying to break this self-defeating cycle
There is a danger
in tuning in that the worker may develop a view of the client that is
far removed from what the client actually thinks and feels – the worker
must put all hunches aside at the beginning of the interaction
What the worker
responds to in the first contacts are the direct and indirect cues that
emerge in conversation with the client
The worker must
only reach tentatively for indirect messages and be prepared for client
to share different and unexpected responses – tuning in is designed
to sensitize the worker to potential concerns and feelings
If tuning in produces
a new stereotype of the client then it will be self-defeating
Responding Directly
to Indirect Cues
The advantage to
a direct response opens up an area of important conversation that can
deepen the working relationship
Some say a direct
response can cause the worker to “lead” the client or hurt the client
if he isn’t ready to deal with that particular feeling – this fear
can lead workers not to use a direct response and let the information
come gradually from the client
Shulman favors direct
responses because the client employs indirect communications at the
beginning of the interaction because he is unsure that he is able to
risk communicating directly to some of the more difficult and taboo
feelings – direct responses shows the client what type of a helping
person the worker is
If the worker’s
guess is “off base” then the client will usually let it be known
– straight out or through other cues like hesitation and lack of affective
response and then the worker can then respond directly to these cues
When clients speak
about past unhelpful workers they are usually referring to the new worker
indirectly – a discussion of the past relationship can be cast in
the context of this new one; the worker can then be clear about how
the relationship will operate (expectations from both sides, etc)
Clients respond
to workers in the early sessions based on stereotypes and also based
on what they heard about the worker through the grape vine
The worker must
allow the client room not to respond to direct responses by the worker
– this can occur because of either lack of trust or lack of readiness
The direct response
can serve as a message that the worker does understand and is ready
to deal with the taboo area when the client is ready – shows the worker
as a feeling, caring, direct person who can see the world through the
client’s eyes and not judge harshly
There are skills
(very difficult to develop) that the worker can use to help a client
manage his feelings – using these skills positively impacted on the
development of the worker’s caring and the worker was seen by the
client as helpful
Reaching inside
of silences
Putting the client’s
feelings into words
Displaying understanding
of the client’s feelings
Sharing the worker’s
feelings
When the above
skills were used in the beginning phase of practice to help clients
manage their feelings it had a moderately strong predictive ability
for both the caring and trust elements of the working relationship
Workers should
use these skills of tuning in and responding to indirect cues at the
beginning of the relationship because clients tend to have a difficulty
articulating their own feelings in the beginning of a new relationship
A worker’s own
ambivalence about exploring an area of work can produce the block –
workers can end up not speaking about a taboo subject because they are
really just protecting themselves and not the client
Workers will also
have difficulties in reaching for cues in taboo areas – workers have
experienced the same set of taboos and have observed the same set of
norms of behavior as have clients so it will take training and support
from supervisors for the workers to feel comfortable enough to give
clients permission to explore these areas of work
Agency Records,
Referral Reports, and the Agency Culture: Avoiding the Trap of Stereotyping
the Client
Prior information
on a client can be helpful or can itself become a block to the worker
Information can
allow the worker to develop the preliminary empathy needed to prepare
for the first session – it can reveal potential themes of concern
to which the new worker can be alert and it may help in developing a
feel for the emotional state of the client
But the information
can also cause the worker to develop a stereotype of the client and
can cause a block in the development of the working relationship
The agency culture
will usually have an impact on the new worker in terms of developing
stereotypical views of a client (this holds true of a client who has
been with the agency for a long time)
When we experience
difficulty in working with others who are different our inherent racism,
sexism, homophobia, and so on emerge in an effort to explain our feelings
of being ineffective
When workers are
conscious of the impact of differences between them and clients it can
lead to a good working relationship
Interactional Paradigm
This is used in
order to get a feeling for the reciprocal interaction between client
and worker in order to view the client’s actions in relation to the
actions of others
Usually the client’s
actions are explainable in relation to the worker’s efforts
After this exploration
the client is seen as more multidimensional
If the worker is
using previous information then he should keep in mind not only the
tentativeness of the information but also the need to see the client
in interaction rather than as a static entity
The worker needs
to clear all of these facts, opinions, and his own tuning-in guesses
from his own mind as the first interview begins
Summary
A worker could increase
his sensitivity to indirect communications by “tuning in”
The worker must
tune into his own feelings first, particularly those related to anxiety
about the first meetings